Emotions

TagLast edit: 23 Sep 2020 19:23 UTC by Multicore

Contrary to the stereotype, rationality doesn’t mean denying emotion. When emotion is appropriate to the reality of the situation, it should be embraced; only when emotion isn’t appropriate should it be suppressed.

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The Straw Vulcan, a talk introducing rationality, by Julia Galef (summary)
Vulcan Logic by Hal Finney

How to Ignore Your Emotions (while also thinking you’re awesome at emotions)

Hazard31 Jul 2019 13:34 UTC

289 points

71 comments4 min readLW link 4 reviews

Four factors that moderate the intensity of emotions

Ruby24 Nov 2018 20:40 UTC

57 points

11 comments8 min readLW link

Three ways CFAR has changed my view of rationality

Julia_Galef10 Sep 2013 18:24 UTC

170 points

59 comments5 min readLW link

Mental Mountains

Scott Alexander27 Nov 2019 5:30 UTC

128 points

14 comments15 min readLW link 1 review

(slatestarcodex.com)

Being at peace with Doom

Johannes C. Mayer9 Apr 2023 14:53 UTC

24 points

11 comments4 min readLW link

Self-sacrifice is a scarce resource

mingyuan28 Jun 2020 5:08 UTC

129 points

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Resolving internal conflicts requires listening to what parts want

Richard_Ngo19 May 2023 0:04 UTC

41 points

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Ureshiku Naritai

Alicorn8 Apr 2010 20:08 UTC

208 points

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Ugh fields

Roko12 Apr 2010 17:06 UTC

348 points

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Limerence Messes Up Your Rationality Real Bad, Yo

Raemon1 Jul 2022 16:53 UTC

101 points

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Emotions = Reward Functions

jpyykko20 Jan 2022 18:46 UTC

16 points

10 comments5 min readLW link

Anger

lsusr18 Apr 2021 16:14 UTC

32 points

23 comments2 min readLW link

Feeling Rational

Eliezer Yudkowsky26 Apr 2007 4:48 UTC

258 points

83 comments3 min readLW link

Lonelinesses

Jacob Falkovich31 May 2019 13:55 UTC

50 points

5 comments5 min readLW link

Building up to an Internal Family Systems model

Kaj_Sotala26 Jan 2019 12:25 UTC

247 points

84 comments28 min readLW link 2 reviews

I learn better when I frame learning as Vengeance for losses incurred through ignorance, and you might too

chaosmage15 Oct 2022 12:41 UTC

71 points

7 comments3 min readLW link

Avoid misinterpreting your emotions

Kaj_Sotala14 Feb 2012 23:51 UTC

92 points

31 comments7 min readLW link

“She Wanted It”

sarahconstantin11 Nov 2018 22:00 UTC

109 points

19 comments7 min readLW link

(srconstantin.wordpress.com)

Don’t feel bad about not knowing basic things

Adam Zerner24 May 2021 1:49 UTC

87 points

33 comments4 min readLW link

The art of grieving well

Valentine15 Dec 2015 19:55 UTC

97 points

23 comments9 min readLW link

Neural Annealing: Toward a Neural Theory of Everything (crosspost)

Michael Edward Johnson29 Nov 2019 17:31 UTC

83 points

28 comments40 min readLW link 3 reviews

Using humility to counteract shame

Vika15 Apr 2016 18:32 UTC

21 points

17 comments2 min readLW link

Book summary: Unlocking the Emotional Brain

Kaj_Sotala8 Oct 2019 19:11 UTC

279 points

40 comments21 min readLW link 3 reviews

Predictive coding & depression

Steven Byrnes3 Jan 2020 2:38 UTC

26 points

9 comments7 min readLW link

The Great Annealing

Jacob Falkovich30 Mar 2020 1:08 UTC

78 points

5 comments8 min readLW link

Healing vs. exercise analogies for emotional work

Kaj_Sotala27 Jan 2020 19:10 UTC

48 points

8 comments2 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

18-month follow-up on my self-concept work

Kaj_Sotala18 Dec 2018 17:40 UTC

60 points

4 comments8 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Tentatively considering emotional stories (IFS and “getting into Self”)

Kaj_Sotala30 Nov 2018 7:40 UTC

37 points

31 comments4 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

On insecurity as a friend

Kaj_Sotala9 Oct 2018 18:30 UTC

38 points

17 comments2 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Book review: The Upside of Your Dark Side: Why Being Your Whole Self–Not Just Your “Good” Self–Drives Success and Fulfillment

Kaj_Sotala4 Dec 2017 13:10 UTC

10 points

2 comments2 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Are Deontological Moral Judgments Rationalizations?

lukeprog16 Aug 2011 16:40 UTC

52 points

170 comments11 min readLW link

Anxiety and Rationality

[deleted]19 Jan 2016 18:30 UTC

50 points

31 comments4 min readLW link

The Skill of Noticing Emotions

Neel Nanda4 Jun 2020 17:48 UTC

77 points

6 comments17 min readLW link

Subagents, trauma and rationality

Kaj_Sotala14 Aug 2019 13:14 UTC

97 points

4 comments19 min readLW link

Your intuitions are not magic

Kaj_Sotala10 Jun 2010 0:11 UTC

161 points

42 comments4 min readLW link

How I Ended Up Non-Ambitious

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 23 Jan 2012 23:50 UTC

245 points

240 comments10 min readLW link

How I [Kaj] found & fixed the root problem behind my depression and anxiety after 20+ years

Kaj_Sotala26 Jul 2017 12:56 UTC

23 points

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(kajsotala.fi)

You can be wrong about what you like, and you often are

Adam Zerner17 Dec 2018 23:49 UTC

30 points

21 comments4 min readLW link

Emotional regulation, Part I: a problem summary

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 5 Mar 2012 23:10 UTC

16 points

38 comments5 min readLW link

Emotional regulation Part II: research summary

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 19 Mar 2012 21:51 UTC

35 points

40 comments10 min readLW link

Resist the Happy Death Spiral

Eliezer Yudkowsky4 Dec 2007 1:15 UTC

77 points

44 comments6 min readLW link

Affective Death Spirals

Eliezer Yudkowsky2 Dec 2007 16:44 UTC

90 points

45 comments2 min readLW link

Status Regulation and Anxious Underconfidence

Eliezer Yudkowsky16 Nov 2017 19:35 UTC

76 points

17 comments21 min readLW link

Self-consciousness wants to make everything about itself

jessicata3 Jul 2019 1:44 UTC

42 points

69 comments6 min readLW link

(unstableontology.com)

Joy in Discovery

Eliezer Yudkowsky21 Mar 2008 1:19 UTC

66 points

48 comments4 min readLW link

Letting Others Be Vulnerable

lifelonglearner19 Nov 2018 2:59 UTC

32 points

6 comments7 min readLW link

Strategies for dealing with emotional nihilism

[deleted]10 Oct 2010 13:31 UTC

38 points

175 comments4 min readLW link

Practical Guidelines for Memory Reconsolidation

Matt Goldenberg13 Nov 2019 19:54 UTC

33 points

5 comments2 min readLW link

Things are allowed to be good and bad at the same time

Kaj_Sotala17 Oct 2020 8:00 UTC

51 points

15 comments2 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Memory reconsolidation for self-affection

Kaj_Sotala27 Oct 2020 10:10 UTC

46 points

11 comments2 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

A workshop on Life Influences

Elo10 Jan 2021 11:23 UTC

8 points

0 comments4 min readLW link

Homeostatic Bruce

matejsuchy8 Apr 2021 19:13 UTC

13 points

8 comments10 min readLW link

(matejsuchy.substack.com)

Preparing for ambition

Adam Zerner19 Jul 2021 6:13 UTC

19 points

8 comments10 min readLW link

A Primer on the Symmetry Theory of Valence

Michael Edward Johnson6 Sep 2021 11:39 UTC

21 points

14 comments7 min readLW link

How feeling more secure feels different than I expected

Kaj_Sotala17 Sep 2021 9:20 UTC

76 points

15 comments3 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Emotionally Confronting a Probably-Doomed World: Against Motivation Via Dignity Points

TurnTrout10 Apr 2022 18:45 UTC

144 points

7 comments9 min readLW link

Notes on Love

David Gross13 Jul 2022 23:35 UTC

16 points

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The biological function of love for non-kin is to gain the trust of people we cannot deceive

chaosmage7 Nov 2022 20:26 UTC

40 points

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Russell Conjugations list & voting thread

Daniel Kokotajlo20 Feb 2023 6:39 UTC

21 points

62 comments1 min readLW link

Feelings are Good, Actually

Gordon Seidoh Worley21 Feb 2023 2:38 UTC

18 points

1 comment4 min readLW link

Here, have a calmness video

Kaj_Sotala16 Mar 2023 10:00 UTC

110 points

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(www.youtube.com)

Goodhart’s Law inside the human mind

Kaj_Sotala17 Apr 2023 13:48 UTC

107 points

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Most people should probably feel safe most of the time

Kaj_Sotala9 May 2023 9:35 UTC

88 points

27 comments10 min readLW link

[Question] How should one feel morally about using chatbots?

Adam Zerner11 May 2023 1:01 UTC

18 points

4 comments1 min readLW link

How I apply (so-called) Non-Violent Communication

Kaj_Sotala15 May 2023 9:56 UTC

76 points

20 comments3 min readLW link

Conflicts between emotional schemas often involve internal coercion

Richard_Ngo17 May 2023 10:02 UTC

27 points

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Coercion is an adaptation to scarcity; trust is an adaptation to abundance

Richard_Ngo23 May 2023 18:14 UTC

72 points

9 comments4 min readLW link

Don’t waste your time meditating on meditation retreats!

Anton Rodenhauser1 Jun 2023 16:56 UTC

15 points

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Fake Reductionism

Eliezer Yudkowsky17 Mar 2008 22:49 UTC

86 points

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Kissing Scars

Logan Riggs9 May 2019 16:00 UTC

39 points

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Magic is Dead, Give me Attention

Hazard10 Jul 2019 20:15 UTC

40 points

13 comments5 min readLW link

Stoicism: Cautionary Advice

VivaLaPanda14 Nov 2018 23:18 UTC

38 points

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Beware Trivial Fears

Stabilizer4 Feb 2014 5:40 UTC

55 points

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Paper Trauma

Qiaochu_Yuan31 Jan 2018 22:05 UTC

71 points

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How to respond to the recent condemnations of the rationalist community

Christopher King4 Apr 2023 1:42 UTC

−2 points

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A Word is Worth 1,000 Pictures

Kully1 Aug 2022 4:08 UTC

1 point

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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) 101

Evie Cottrell25 Sep 2022 7:25 UTC

4 points

2 comments8 min readLW link

Signaling Guilt

Krieger8 Oct 2022 20:40 UTC

20 points

6 comments1 min readLW link

Strategies and tools for getting through a break up

lululu18 May 2015 18:01 UTC

57 points

45 comments11 min readLW link

“Memento Mori”, Said The Confessor

namespace2 Feb 2020 3:37 UTC

34 points

4 comments1 min readLW link

(www.thelastrationalist.com)

Fighting the allure of depressive realism

aaq10 Feb 2019 16:46 UTC

19 points

2 comments3 min readLW link

Learning to Learn and Navigating Moods

calebo21 Jul 2019 15:53 UTC

21 points

13 comments11 min readLW link

[Question] 3-P Group optimal for discussion?

AiresJL13 Jul 2020 22:23 UTC

3 points

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Don’t Get Offended

katydee7 Mar 2013 2:11 UTC

41 points

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Impostor syndrome: how to cure it with spreadsheets and meditation

KatWoods9 Feb 2023 21:04 UTC

26 points

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Desire is the direction, rationality is the magnitude

So8res5 Apr 2015 17:27 UTC

35 points

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Acknowledging Rationalist Angst

Hazard6 Nov 2017 5:26 UTC

10 points

10 comments4 min readLW link

Emotions are not beliefs

Chris_Leong7 Aug 2019 6:27 UTC

23 points

2 comments2 min readLW link

The Power to Be Emotionally Mature

Liron16 Sep 2019 2:41 UTC

32 points

2 comments4 min readLW link

“And that’s okay”: accepting and owning reality

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 27 Jul 2014 19:13 UTC

38 points

21 comments7 min readLW link

On Emotional Responsibility & Abuse

devas24 Apr 2018 12:50 UTC

9 points

8 comments3 min readLW link

(landofwindandskyscrapers.tumblr.com)

Discussion: Socially Awkward Penguin as a tool for unraveling social enigmas

Raw_Power17 Jun 2011 0:52 UTC

31 points

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Why Truth?

Eliezer Yudkowsky27 Nov 2006 1:49 UTC

144 points

60 comments3 min readLW link

Morphological intelligence, superhuman empathy, and ethical arbitration

Roman Leventov13 Feb 2023 10:25 UTC

1 point

0 comments2 min readLW link

The Comedy of Behaviorism

Eliezer Yudkowsky2 Aug 2008 20:42 UTC

31 points

56 comments6 min readLW link

The Post-Virtual-Reality Sadness

morganism16 Nov 2016 8:17 UTC

13 points

7 comments1 min readLW link

(medium.com)

Putanumonit—Discarding empathy to save the world

Jacob Falkovich6 Oct 2016 7:03 UTC

14 points

38 comments1 min readLW link

(putanumonit.com)

Nobody Is Perfect, Everything Is Commensurable

Scott Alexander19 Dec 2014 5:00 UTC

39 points

4 comments11 min readLW link

“Self-pretending” is not as useful as we think

pwno25 Apr 2009 23:01 UTC

3 points

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Learning from counterfactuals

Gyrodiot25 Nov 2020 23:07 UTC

11 points

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Choose To Be Happy

DanArmak1 Jan 2011 22:50 UTC

29 points

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Positive Thinking

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 7 Mar 2011 1:03 UTC

28 points

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Why You Might Want a New Way to Visualize Biases

dtm27 Jul 2020 17:30 UTC

18 points

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Self-administered EMDR without a therapist is very useful for a lot of things!

Anton Rodenhauser25 May 2023 17:54 UTC

33 points

8 comments11 min readLW link

Caring less

eukaryote13 Mar 2018 22:53 UTC

69 points

24 comments4 min readLW link 3 reviews

Implementing the Second Virtue: Feel the Emotions Which Fit the Facts

LukeOnline9 May 2021 5:47 UTC

5 points

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Is Rhetoric Worth Learning?

sarahconstantin6 Apr 2018 22:03 UTC

66 points

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Announcing the Replacing Guilt audiobook

gianlucatruda25 Jun 2021 13:38 UTC

65 points

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The Best Textbooks on Every Subject

lukeprog16 Jan 2011 8:30 UTC

631 points

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Shame: Authentic & Applied/Manufactured Shame

Phoenix Eliot18 Aug 2021 21:37 UTC

8 points

6 comments7 min readLW link

Why I Believe LLMs Do Not Have Human-like Emotions

OneManyNone22 May 2023 15:46 UTC

3 points

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AGI will know: Humans are not Rational

HumaneAutomation20 Mar 2023 18:46 UTC

0 points

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Emotional microscope

pchvykov20 Sep 2021 21:37 UTC

3 points

9 comments3 min readLW link

Tentative Anger

Adam Zerner27 Nov 2021 4:38 UTC

18 points

6 comments5 min readLW link

Misery Pits

Alicorn10 Mar 2018 23:50 UTC

47 points

23 comments2 min readLW link

The Curse Of The Counterfactual

pjeby1 Nov 2019 18:34 UTC

117 points

34 comments19 min readLW link 1 review

Joy in the Merely Real

Eliezer Yudkowsky20 Mar 2008 6:18 UTC

136 points

43 comments2 min readLW link

The problem with too many rational memes

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 19 Jan 2012 0:56 UTC

121 points

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The scourge of perverse-mindedness

simplicio21 Mar 2010 7:08 UTC

122 points

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Shut Up and Divide?

Wei_Dai9 Feb 2010 20:09 UTC

107 points

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How To Have Things Correctly

Alicorn17 Oct 2012 6:10 UTC

100 points

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Beware Social Coping Strategies

Lulie5 Feb 2018 4:48 UTC

48 points

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Wrongology 101

sarahconstantin25 Apr 2018 0:00 UTC

31 points

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(srconstantin.wordpress.com)

Guilt: Another Gift Nobody Wants

Scott Alexander31 Mar 2011 0:27 UTC

97 points

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Calibrate your self-assessments

Scott Alexander9 Oct 2011 23:26 UTC

96 points

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Have you felt exiert yet?

Stuart_Armstrong5 Jan 2018 17:03 UTC

28 points

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A Suite of Pragmatic Considerations in Favor of Niceness

Alicorn5 Jan 2010 21:32 UTC

109 points

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Measuring aversion and habit strength

Academian27 May 2011 1:05 UTC

111 points

14 comments3 min readLW link

Spock’s Dirty Little Secret

pjeby25 Mar 2009 19:07 UTC

59 points

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Explaining vs. Explaining Away

Eliezer Yudkowsky17 Mar 2008 1:59 UTC

96 points

101 comments4 min readLW link

New Improved Lottery

Eliezer Yudkowsky13 Apr 2007 23:42 UTC

97 points

43 comments2 min readLW link

Why startup founders have mood swings (and why they may have uses)

AnnaSalamon9 Dec 2015 18:59 UTC

88 points

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Active vs Passive Distraction

squidious14 Feb 2018 22:14 UTC

25 points

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Instead of “I’m anxious,” try “I feel threatened”

Holly_Elmore28 Jun 2019 5:24 UTC

56 points

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(mhollyelmoreblog.wordpress.com)

The Power of Reinforcement

lukeprog21 Jun 2012 13:42 UTC

163 points

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A Cautionary Note on Unlocking the Emotional Brain

eapache8 Feb 2020 17:21 UTC

52 points

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Existential Angst Factory

Eliezer Yudkowsky19 Jul 2008 6:55 UTC

75 points

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EU Maximizing in a Gloomy World

David Udell27 Apr 2022 0:28 UTC

6 points

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My recommendations for gratitude exercises

MaxCarpendale5 Aug 2019 19:04 UTC

40 points

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I’m scared.

Mass_Driver23 Dec 2010 9:05 UTC

56 points

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Notes on Empathy

David Gross3 May 2022 4:06 UTC

25 points

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The “Adults in the Room”

David Udell17 May 2022 4:03 UTC

36 points

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Diffusing “I can’t be that stupid”

Hazard24 Mar 2018 14:49 UTC

23 points

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[Question] What’s up with self-esteem?

abramdemski25 Jun 2019 3:38 UTC

39 points

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If You Demand Magic, Magic Won’t Help

Eliezer Yudkowsky22 Mar 2008 18:10 UTC

158 points

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It’s okay to be (at least a little) irrational

Kaj_Sotala12 Apr 2009 21:06 UTC

61 points

59 comments2 min readLW link

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Emotions

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