TagLast edit: 19 Mar 2023 19:51 UTC by Diabloto96

Self-deception is a state of preserving a wrong belief, often facilitated by denying or rationalizing away the relevance, significance, or importance of opposing evidence and logical arguments. Beliefs supported by self-deception are often chosen for reasons other than how closely those beliefs approximate truth.

Related: Anticipated Experiences, Motivated Reasoning, Rationalization

On LessWrong, a common distinction is between beliefs as expectation-controllers and other things people commonly label as beliefs. When these different things conflict, a person is said to have engaged in self-deception.

Deceiving yourself is harder than it seems. What looks like a successively adopted false belief may actually be just a belief in false belief.

An example from No, Really, I’ve Deceived Myself:

When this woman was in high school, she thought she was an atheist. But she decided, at that time, that she should act as if she believed in God. And then—she told me earnestly—over time, she came to really believe in God.

So far as I can tell, she is completely wrong about that. Always throughout our conversation, she said, over and over, “I believe in God”, never once, “There is a God.” When I asked her why she was religious, she never once talked about the consequences of God existing, only about the consequences of believing in God. Never, “God will help me”, always, “my belief in God helps me”. When I put to her, “Someone who just wanted the truth and looked at our universe would not even invent God as a hypothesis,” she agreed outright.

She hasn’t actually deceived herself into believing that God exists or that the Jewish religion is true. Not even close, so far as I can tell.

On the other hand, I think she really does believe she has deceived herself.

Blog posts

Sequence by Eliezer Yudkowsky

Part of How To Actually Change Your Mind sequence

Other resources

See also

No, Really, I’ve De­ceived Myself

Eliezer Yudkowsky4 Mar 2009 23:29 UTC
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Forc­ing your­self to keep your iden­tity small is self-harm

Gordon Seidoh Worley3 Apr 2021 14:03 UTC
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Belief in Belief

Eliezer Yudkowsky29 Jul 2007 17:49 UTC
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The Loud­est Alarm Is Prob­a­bly False

orthonormal2 Jan 2018 16:38 UTC
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Trivers on Self-Deception

Scott Alexander12 Jul 2011 21:04 UTC
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Ends Don’t Jus­tify Means (Among Hu­mans)

Eliezer Yudkowsky14 Oct 2008 21:00 UTC
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Dou­ble­think (Choos­ing to be Bi­ased)

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Ne­go­ti­at­ing With Yourself

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The Third Alternative

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Al­gorith­mic In­tent: A Han­so­nian Gen­er­al­ized Anti-Zom­bie Principle

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Strate­gic ig­no­rance and plau­si­ble deniability

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Of Two Minds

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Eth­i­cal Injunctions

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Don’t Believe You’ll Self-Deceive

Eliezer Yudkowsky9 Mar 2009 8:03 UTC
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Belief in Self-Deception

Eliezer Yudkowsky5 Mar 2009 15:20 UTC
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Book Re­view: The Elephant in the Brain

Zvi31 Dec 2017 17:30 UTC
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Self-de­cep­tion: Hypocrisy or Akra­sia?

Eliezer Yudkowsky26 Mar 2007 17:03 UTC
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A cyn­i­cal ex­pla­na­tion for why ra­tio­nal­ists worry about FAI

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Self-skep­ti­cism: the first prin­ci­ple of rationality

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“Ra­tion­al­iz­ing” and “Sit­ting Bolt Upright in Alarm.”

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The Just World Hypothesis

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The Haters Gonna Hate Fallacy

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Un­wit­ting cult leaders

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Ex­cerpts from Veyne’s “Did the Greeks Believe in Their Myths?”

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Un­der­stand­ing and avoid­ing value drift

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[Question] Lost in the sauce

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Or­di­nary Peo­ple and Ex­traor­di­nary Evil: A Re­port on the Beguil­ings of Evil

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Notes on Fairness

David Gross7 Dec 2020 18:52 UTC
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The Unifi­ca­tion of Physics and Me­ta­physics: 22 Ax­ioms for All Existences

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Book Re­view: De­nial of Death

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Col­lege Ad­mis­sions as a Bru­tal One-Shot Game

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Ra­tion­al­ity Is Not Sys­tem­atized Winning

namespace11 Nov 2018 22:05 UTC
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If we can’t lie to oth­ers, we will lie to ourselves

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Do a cost-benefit anal­y­sis of your tech­nol­ogy usage

TurnTrout27 Mar 2022 23:09 UTC
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Belief in Belief vs. Internalization

Desrtopa29 Nov 2010 3:12 UTC
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Ex­pert trap: Why is it hap­pen­ing? (Part 2 of 3) – how hind­sight, hi­er­ar­chy, and con­fir­ma­tion bi­ases break con­duc­tivity and ac­cu­racy of knowledge

Paweł Sysiak9 Jun 2023 23:00 UTC
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On self-deception

irrational5 Oct 2011 18:46 UTC
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Go­ing Crazy and Get­ting Bet­ter Again

Evenstar2 Jul 2023 18:55 UTC
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A Re­fu­ta­tion of (Global) “Hap­piness Max­i­miza­tion”

fare25 Aug 2020 20:33 UTC
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“Endgame safety” for AGI

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Ex­pert trap – Ways out (Part 3 of 3)

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Ra­tion­al­iza­tion Max­i­mizes Ex­pected Value

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How to reach 80% of your goals. Ex­actly 80%.

Bart Bussmann10 Oct 2020 17:33 UTC
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I be­lieve it’s doublethink

kerspoon21 Feb 2012 22:30 UTC
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“Self-pre­tend­ing” is not as use­ful as we think

pwno25 Apr 2009 23:01 UTC
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Epistemic vs. In­stru­men­tal Ra­tion­al­ity: Case of the Leaky Agent

Wei Dai7 May 2009 23:09 UTC
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Lie to me?

pwno24 Jun 2009 21:56 UTC
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“The Book Of Mor­mon” or Belief In Belief, The Musical

Raw_Power14 Feb 2012 14:48 UTC
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Be more effec­tive by learn­ing im­por­tant prac­ti­cal knowl­edge us­ing flashcards

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Magic Shoes

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An Idea on How LLMs Can Show Self-Serv­ing Bias

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[Question] Liv­ing with a home­opath—how?

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Shut Up And Guess

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Si­mul­ta­neously Right and Wrong

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The Bias You Didn’t Expect

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The Strangest Thing An AI Could Tell You

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Your Ra­tion­al­ity is My Business

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Selfish AI Inevitable

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The Im­por­tance of Say­ing “Oops”

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A Dialogue On Doublethink

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What I Tell You Three Times Is True

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Ab­solute de­nial for atheists

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