TeaTieAndHat

• TeaTieAndHat 11 Mar 2026 11:39 UTC

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  on: Here’s to the Polypropy­lene Makers

  I really liked this post. It’s heartwarming. I like adding things to my list of creative solutions. I also like to relate it to my own issues with… self-efficacy, I guess: there are so many things that I don’t do, or don’t even notice I can do, until someone makes the option available to me in neat packaged form.

ACX/​LW Fe­bru­ary Paris Meetup

• TeaTieAndHat 23 Dec 2024 18:06 UTC

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  on: What Goes Without Saying

  Thanks for this post, I found it very useful.
  
  While I agree with you that these things should go without saying, I think I’m not so surprised that they don’t actually go without saying?
  In particular, I often notice that most of these things don’t seem to go without saying even for myself? There is obviously a good way of doing things, but (I assume ultimately because of something like a low opinion of one’s own competence, warranted or not), noticing that we’re doing something else instead is hard, and carefully tracking one’s impact is also hard. It is our job to do things better, but noticing that might come with eg. anxiety, beyond the fact that doing things better is in itself hard? Etc.

  I kinda wish I wasn’t writing this: anyone reading this was most likely already aware of the point I’m making, and I don’t particularly feel proud of going “yes, motivating ourselves to become better and improve the world is awesome, but have you considered that sometimes it’s mildly inconvenient?”. Still: sometimes it is in fact difficult, and, in the examples that come most readily to my mind at least, the bulk of what makes it difficult is some kind of anxiety of not being competent enough, or something along these lines.

  Hence the question: the content of this post, while obviously true, does not in fact always go without saying: how could we make it more likely that it goes without saying more often and for more people?

• TeaTieAndHat 2 Dec 2024 10:11 UTC

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  in reply to: DaystarEld’s comment on: (The) Light­cone is noth­ing with­out its peo­ple: LW + Lighthaven’s big fundraiser

  My decision process was much dumber: 1. Try to spend less time on LW, and move to close the page after having reflexively opened it, deliberately not opening this post. 2. See Daystar’s comment on the frontpage and go “wait, that’s pretty important for me too”. 3. Give ten bucks, because I don’t have $1,000 lying around.

  So, basically, I’m making a mostly useless comment but thanks for reminding me to donate :-)

• TeaTieAndHat 21 Oct 2024 9:03 UTC

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  in reply to: Cipolla’s comment on: Cipolla’s Shortform

  I’m not quite sure how to answer your question, but at least I have similar feelings: that my conscientiousness is relatively low ; and that many people who do cooler stuff than me appear to be more driven, with clearer goals and a better ability to actually go and pursue them. I have various thoughts on this:

  • To an extent, it’s just an impression. Many people will struggle to do more than a fraction of what they wanted, and yet because they still do quite a lot and remain very upbeat, you don’t notice than they achieve relatively little compared to what they want, but they certainly notice that. Similarly, many people are working on cool projects and apparently having tons of fun doing it, but if you asked you’d learn that they have no clue about “what they want to do with their lives” or similar super long-term goals.

  • In fact, I suspect that most people feel at least a little like that at least sometimes, and that we grossly underestimate how likely others are to feel that way.

  • Yet, some people genuinely are better able to get stuff done and stay relentlessly focused on tasks than others. It can be built from habit, it can come from being really really into the one specific thing you’re working on, etc. If you struggle with that anyway, it might be something to do with mental health: famously ADHD, but also autism, or depression/​anxiety can impact conscientiousness, and all these seem somewhat more common among LW readers than in the general population, so I dunno, maybe?

  • And some people are also better than others at being optimistic, enthusiastic, eager to do cool stuff. I guess there are many causes, and therefore many potential ways of dealing with it, but I personally like the explanation from low self-confidence, fear of failure, etc., making you less willing to try ambitious stuff (notice how you said “it’s like they’re already taking their success for certain”, when, yeah that might be the case, but it might also be that they’re aware they can fail, but they think it’s likely they could easily recover from that failure anyway). It’s quite well described (imho) here.

  • But I’m pretty sure I’m covering only a relatively narrow part of the space of all the things that could be said on that topic, so I hope other people write other replies with completely different takes on the problem :-)

• TeaTieAndHat 12 Sep 2024 3:42 UTC

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  in reply to: NoSignalNoNoise’s comment on: Phys­i­cal Ther­apy Sucks (but have you tried hid­ing it in some peanut but­ter?)

  Interesting. This specific form of ‘reward’ also works well for me (and I also hadn’t conceptualised it as such), but when people talk about rewarding yourself as an incentive for doing something, it’s usually stuff like ‘give yourself a slice of cake if you’ve had a productive workday’ or whatever, and in those cases, my brain is always going ‘wait! I can have the cake anyway, even though I didn’t do what I planned! It’s right here, I can just eat it!’. I’m not sure why it happens, or why watching videos when exercising works better, but I assume it’s what Seth meant?

• TeaTieAndHat 1 Aug 2024 8:04 UTC

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  in reply to: habryka’s comment on: tlevin’s Shortform

  Thanks! I knew of Alexander, but you reminded me that I’ve been procrastinating on tackling the 1,200+ pages of A Pattern Language for a few months, and I’ve now started reading it :-)

• TeaTieAndHat 31 Jul 2024 9:36 UTC

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  in reply to: habryka’s comment on: tlevin’s Shortform

  I’m being slightly off-topic here, but how does one “makes it architecturally difficult to have larger conversations”? More broadly, the topic of designing spaces where people can think better/​do cooler stuff/​etc. is fascinating, but I don’t know where to learn more than the very basics of it. Do you know good books, articles, etc. on these questions, by any chance?

• TeaTieAndHat 23 Jul 2024 15:41 UTC

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  in reply to: StefanHex’s comment on: The $100B plan with “70% risk of kil­ling us all” w Stephen Fry [video]

  Apparently, he co-founded the channel. But of course he might have had his voiced faked just for this video, as some suggested in the comments to it.

• TeaTieAndHat 22 Jul 2024 4:37 UTC

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  on: The $100B plan with “70% risk of kil­ling us all” w Stephen Fry [video]

  The very real possibility that it’s not in fact Stephen Fry’s voice is as frightening to me as to anyone else, but Stephen Fry doing AI Safety is still really nice to listen to (and at the very least I know he’s legitimately affiliated with that YT channel, which means that Stephen Fry is somewhat into AI safety, which is awesome)

• TeaTieAndHat 19 Jul 2024 4:49 UTC

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  in reply to: DPiepgrass’s comment on: Linkpost: Surely you can be serious

  “Have you met non-serious people who long to be serious? People like that seem very rare to me.”
  … Hmmm… kinda? Like, you’re probably right that it’s few people, and in specific circumstances, but I know some people who are doing something they don’t like, or who are doing something they like but struggling with motivation or whatever for other reasons, and certainly seem to wish they were more serious (or people who did in fact change careers or whatever and are now basically as serious as Mastroianni wants them to be, when they weren’t at all before). But those are basically people who were always inclined to be serious but were prevented from doing so by their circumstances, so you have a point, of course.

• TeaTieAndHat 6 Jul 2024 3:46 UTC

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  in reply to: Dzoldzaya’s comment on: In­tro­duc­tion to French AI Policy

  Yes, he’s definitely a polemicist, and not a researcher or an expert. By training, he’s a urologist with an MBA or two, and most of what he writes definitely sounds very oversimplified/​simplistic.

• TeaTieAndHat 5 Jul 2024 18:12 UTC

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  in reply to: TeaTieAndHat’s comment on: In­tro­duc­tion to French AI Policy

  Well, I did the thing where I actually go find this guy’s main book (2017, so not his latest) on archive.org and read it. The style is weird, with a lot of “she says this, Google says AGI will be fine, some other guy says it won’t”, and I’m not 100% confident what Alexandre himself believes as far as the details are concerned.
  But it seems really obvious that his view is at least something like “AI will be super-duper powerful, the idea that perhaps we might not build it does not cross my mind, so we will have AGI eventually, then we’d better have it before the other guys, and make ourselves really smart through eugenics so we’re not left too far behind when the AI comes”. “Enter the Matrix to avoid being swallowed by it”, as he puts it (this is a quote).
  Judging by his tone, he seems to simply not consider that perhaps we could deliberately avoid building AGI, and to be unaware of most of the finer details of discussions about AI and safety (he also says that telling AI to obey us will result in the AI seeing us as colonizers and revolting against us, and so we should pre-emptively avoid such “anti-silicium racism”. Which is an oversimplification of, like, so many different things.), but some sentences are more like “humanity will have to determine the maximum speed of AI deployment [and it’ll be super hard/​impossible because people will want to get the benefits of more IA]”. So, at least he’s aware of the problem. He doesn’t seem to have anything to say beyond that on AI safety issues, however.
  Oh, and he quotes (and possibly endorses?) the idea that “duh, AI can’t be smarter than us, we have multiple intelligences, Gardner said so”.

  Overall, it’s much clearer to me why Lucie calls him an accelerationnist, and it seems like a good characterization.

• TeaTieAndHat 5 Jul 2024 17:03 UTC

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  in reply to: Dzoldzaya’s comment on: In­tro­duc­tion to French AI Policy

  I don’t know Alexandre’s ideas very well, but here’s what I understand: you know how people who don’t like rationalists say they’re just using a veneer of rationality to hide right-wing libertarian beliefs? Well, that’s exactly what Alexandre in fact very openly does, complete with some very embarrassing opinions on the differences in IQ between different parts of the world, that strengthen his position as quite an unsavoury character (the potential reputational harms that would arise as a result of having a caricature of a rationalist be a prominent political actor are left as an exercise to the reader...)

  
  Wikipedia tells me that he likes Bostrom, however, which probably makes him genuinely more aware of AI-related issues than the vast majority of French politicians. However, he also doesn’t expect AGI before 2100, so, until then he’s clearly focused on making sure we can work with AI as much as possible, making sure we can learn to use those superintelligence thingies before they’re strong enough to take our jobs and destroy our democracies, etc… and he’s very insistent that this is an important thing to be doing: if you have shorter timelines than he does (and, like, you do!), then he’s definitely something of an accelerationnist.

• TeaTieAndHat 29 May 2024 17:25 UTC

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  on: Hardshipification

  I agree with those who are surprised that you are offended by this relatively innocuous part of the social script. However, it is also a useful lesson for me personally: my social skills aren’t great, so, even more than others, I usually drift along social situations by saying, more or less “ow, I’d hate that if I were you”, “whoa, I find that thing you just said really interesting!”, and then the conversation stalls because I don’t say anything else, or I add in my own anecdote and then it stalls, or the other person acknowledges that I said I was here for them and then the conversation stalls awkwardly, as in the specific case you described. And so, once more, I see someone (you, in this case), telling me that the way to make interesting conversations is to ask the other person to speak, in some form or another (“and how does that feel?”, “tell me more”, “nice, and you?”, etc.). It should be obvious advice, but — as you show — I’m not the only one for whom it doesn’t always seem obvious or easy. Anyway, my point is, I should do that more often, thanks for the reminder!

• TeaTieAndHat 24 May 2024 4:34 UTC

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  in reply to: Ben Turtel’s comment on: Power Law Policy

  Yeah, I know that, that it’s just that you decided to approach the problem from that angle. And, on the one hand, it was more interesting that way, but on the other hand I was a bit surprised, basically, by what that framing ended up bringing forward vs leaving in the background — re-reading my comment, I still agree with the facts of what I said, but my tone was a bit harsher than I’d wanted.

  In fact it’s very interesting: I’m still not surprised that governments don’t do it the way you suggest they should, because people in the bottom 99% want to be treated as well as people in the 1%, or because they prefer to be helped rather than left behind and then given money, etc., but I agree that it would in principle work better the way you describe, and that we often neglect that!

• TeaTieAndHat 23 May 2024 8:01 UTC

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  on: Power Law Policy

  In many ways, that’s an odd framing of the question(s) at hand: governments don’t just blindly try to maximise their tax revenue/​the state’s productive capacity (although maybe they should do more of that?), and to some extent there are good reasons why they don’t (the very many citizens who are never going to make it into the top 1% — because that’s what one percent means — certainly prefer it if the tradeoff is a little more in their favour, and for mostly good reasons), etc.
  Yours is a political opinion I agree with — it means that governments should help people I like, and fund stuff I find cool and important to have! — but if someone comes up and say to you that they care much more about other things than being maximally productive as a country, I don’t see arguments to reply to that in your post.
  In that respect, the way you framed that as “productive people give the government more revenue” rather than something like “productive people build cool stuff everyone gets to enjoy” is interesting, but also makes it easier for someone to say that they just care about other things. All that means that, to me, this post sounds a lot more like a political opinion than the average LW post.

  I wholeheartedly agree with the general idea, though: especially in my corner of Europe, people don’t seem to be very encouraged to try things and maximise the amount of interesting/​important things they do, at least not as much as in the Bay Area, and I’d love to live in a world where people improve themselves more and do cool stuff more.

May Parisian ACX Meetup

• TeaTieAndHat 19 May 2024 11:34 UTC

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  on: Fund me please—I Work so Hard that my Feet start Bleed­ing and I Need to In­fil­trate University

  “As there were no showers, on the last day of the project you could literally smell all the hard work I had put in.”: that’s the point where I’d consider dragging out the history nerds. This, for instance, could have been useful :-)

• TeaTieAndHat 17 May 2024 9:57 UTC

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  on: Should I Finish My Bach­e­lor’s De­gree?

  I’m probably typical-minding a bit here, but: you say you have had mental health issues in the past (which, based on how you describe them, sound at least superficially similar to my own), and that you feel like you’ve outlived yourself. Which, although it is a feeling I recognise, is still a surprising thing to say: even a high P(doom) only tells you that your life might soon have to stop, not that it already has! My wild-ass guess would be that, in addition to maybe having something to prove intellectually and psychologically, you feel lost, with the ability to do things (btw, I didn’t know your blog and it’s pretty neat) but nothing in particular to do. Maybe you’re considering finishing your degree because it gives you a medium-term goal with some structure in the tasks associated with it?