I suspect the people you’re referring to are concerned that they basically will have their voice silenced as a result...
I don’t know who you think I’m subtweeting here but I’m pretty sure I am not subtweeting them. For instance, the actual fights I’ve had about this have been with romantic partners (it has come up with more than one of them).
… anyway, I dunno about you, but if A gets triggered by B questioning A’s self-model, that’s one of the biggest updates for me that A has wildly inaccurate self-models. After all, you won’t end up with an accurate self-model if the main model-error-correction mechanism is broken. If someone questions my own self-model, and I respond by calmly talking through the actual evidence out loud, that also serves as a costly signal that I think clearly about my own self-model.
I was not claiming that Kelsey Piper in particular feels like her self-models are sacred or inviolable, or that she gets super triggered when people question them. I rarely read Kelsey Piper, I don’t have much of a take on her at all.