Thx, I think I got most of this from your top level comment & Mikhail’s post already. I strongly expect that I do not know your policy for confidentiality right now, but I also expect that once I do I’d disagree with it being the best policy one can have, just based on what I heard from Mikhail and you about your one interaction.
My guess is that refusing the promise is plausibly better than giving it for free? But I guess that there’d have been another solution where 1) Mikhail learns not to screw up again, and 2) you get to have people talk more freely around you to a degree that’s worth loosing the ability to make use of some screw-ups, and 3) Mikhail compensates you in case that 1+2 is still too far away from a fair split of the total expected gains.
I expect you’ll say that 2) sounds pretty negative to you, and that you and the community should follow a policy where there’s way less support for confidentiality, which can be achieved by exploiting screw-ups and by sometimes saying no if people ask for confidentiality in advance, so that people who engage in confidentiality either leave the community or learn to properly share information openly.
I found this in 30s, which is importantly different.
https://x.com/BellicoseBestie/status/2061162318826799384