I don’t really, I don’t feel like I know the data well enough, I was just talking about this on the assumption that what the post describes (looking for a community) is what’s going on for at least a non-insignificant amount of people. My point was just, if what’s happening is simply people who are looking for a community, then obviously it’s worse if they find a community which requires them to undergo medical procedures than if they find one that doesn’t (since unnecessary medical procedures are always a net negative, and the benefits would be the same anyway).
I don’t think social contagion is like, an impossible concept. People seem very fixated on some things being ontological truths about you, but even if dysphoria is innate (it seems to be), it hardly seems impossible that if you have some kind of psychological hangup you may misidentify it as being trans, just as you describe the opposite, of being trans and misidentifying it as something else. The latter used to be far more common in the past because of course being trans was a thing no one would really talk much about and generally framed negatively. It still suffers quite a lot of discrimination but also has more positive discourse and more public communities so I think it’s entirely possible for either direction to happen, though probably the “am dysphoric/trans but stay in denial about it” is still more common. That doesn’t mean it needs to straight up become an epidemic, which for me would entail something like, not only a few non-trans people mistakenly think they’re trans, but so many of them doing so that they then convince more non-trans people that they must be trans, and the community is straight up dominated by non dysphoric people who just memed themselves into believing they’re trans. I don’t think that’s happening and I don’t think that sounds likely. But a few sparse episodes of lonely people who are just desperate to fit in somewhere and end up persuading themselves that the one community where they’re being accepted might be where they belong in other ways too? That probably happens, it feels like it’s just a common human thing.
I am going to be honest, if you asked me pre-Jan 6 “how many people would be shot if they attacked en masse the Capitol with Congress in session” my guess would have been much higher than one. This isn’t a case of protestors just doing their business in a public street and getting into some heated argument with police that degenerates into a fight. It was an attempt to interfere with government, and possibly a direct threat to the life and safety of elected officials. Even if you think it was warranted you would be an idiot to think it would be safe. You don’t storm the Bastille and expect no fire in return. A State’s whole thing is a monopoly on violence, it’s entirely expected that an attempt to violently subvert that State’s own internal mechanisms would be met with violence in return.