I watched Barbie and absolutely hated it. Though it did provide some value to me after I spent some time thinking about why precisely I hated it. Barbie really showed me the difference between the archetypal story that appeals to males and the female equivalent, and how much just hitting that archetypal story is enough to make a movie enjoyable for either men or women.
The plot of the basic male-appealing story is “Man is weak. Man works hard with clear goal. Man becomes strong”. I think men feel this basic archetypal story much more strongly than women, so that even an otherwise horrible story can be entertaining if it hits that particular chord well enough (evidence: most isekai stories), if the man is weak enough at the beginning, or the work especially hard. I’m not exactly clear what the equivalent story is for women, but it’s something like “Woman thinks she’s not good enough, but she needs to realise that she is already perfect”. And the Barbie movie really hits on that note, which is why I think the women in my life seemed to enjoy it. But that archetype just doesn’t resonate with me at all.
The apparent end-point for the Kens in the movie is that they “find themselves”. This was (to me) a clear misunderstanding by the female authors of what the masculine instinct is like. Men don’t “find themselves”, they decide who they want to be and work towards climbing out of their pitiful initial states. (There was also the weird Ken obsession with horses, which are mostly a female-only thing)
Not especially, for the same reason that I don’t plan on starting to eat 90% dark chocolate to learn to like it, even if other people like it (and I can even appreciate that it has a few health benefits). I certainly am not saying that only movies that appeal to me be made, I’m happy that Barbie exists and that other people like it, but I’ll keep reading my male-protagonist progression fantasies on RoyalRoad.
I have a profound sense of disgust and recoil when someone tells me to lower my standards about myself. Whenever I hear something like “it’s ok, you don’t need to improve, just be yourself, you’re enough”, I react strongly, because That Way Lay Weakness. I don’t have problems valuing myself, and I’m very good at appreciating my achievements, so that self-acceptance message is generally not properly aimed at me, it would be an overcorrection if I took that message even more to heart than I do right now.