I suspect we’re talking about different groups of people. When you originally said
whenever they interact with someone who’s relatively closer to AI capabilities research
I understood that as people not necessarily working in a lab. Most people I know (working esp. in hw-sw codesign) who are ‘relatively closer’ to this, for example, are people working on kernels, inference hardware, PyTorch, etc. So the cost of “advocating for a stop” is pretty low; for example, I periodically hear other people at my workplace say that it’d be great if they did, uncontroversially given that many of us work on security and so for them to do so would straightforwardly make our working lives easier. But everyone understands that this does ~nothing. So if the ask is for people to go whole hog on “spreading the word” I think people rightfully dismiss it as unserious, in the same way as someone might try to evangelize people to “tell others about Bazel/NixOS/...”. And this is important, since there are many more people working ‘near’ the labs then actually working in them, even if they individually have less power. I agree that for people working on the labs, loudly doing so would be a very different kind of act and thus likely to be taken seriously.
it’s not you resigning, it’s you sitting there lazily and complaining to other people to take a big financial, social, status, and career hit
I do think that it’s necessary for the ‘evangelist’ here to have some bona fides to show their own seriousness, yes. For example an ideal situation would be for someone to speak out, resign, and then ask former colleagues to do the same (within the limits of the law). But there are other ways to prove ‘actual dedication’ more or less credibility; if one were to resign from their comfy job working on widgets to go work at a safety startup, then that would at least lend some credence to future pleas.
Ultimately I do think that you need different messages for people at the labs and for people not at the labs. For lab employees you’re essentially hoping they defect, if fractionally, from the interests of their employer; for others, it suffices to merely align against a group of relative outsiders.
So much for the AI safety issue not becoming polarized.
I wouldn’t be totally surprised if this flips once Trump is out of office given the weight of popular opinion, c.f. sliding Democratic opinions on immigration. But that’s a long time from now.