This is an interesting result. Gemini would perhaps approve of Kirk’s approach to the Kobayashi Maru?
One thing which would increase my confidence in the conclusion would be to split the “Low signs of awareness” into the 4 categories of eval. At the moment it isn’t quite clear whether the difference in behaviour in the different eval categories is due to:
Gemini realising it is being evaluated or
Gemini being better aligned for certain eval categories
In the bumping into someone example, the sorry seems to be mainly a status re-adjustment. A failure to apologise is a claim to have a higher status than the bumpee. An apology reaffirms the relative status as what it was before the bump.
If the harm caused is significant such that the status readjustment is insufficient then it gets more complicated and the bumping example is unhelpful.
If someone in a rush trod on my foot and broke it then I would not accept an apology if I didn’t think they were intending to change, even if they offered me a nebulous IOU.