Visakan Veerasamy: love this: awkward shy rejection-sensitive pimply Asian guy asked 100 girls out on a date. 19 said yes! 10 were lesbian. Concludes that he got over his fear of rejection in a single day.
Maybe I’m looking at this from the wrong angle, but fear of rejection seems quite well justified if the base failure rate is 81%.
Who cares, someone could argue, the maximally bad thing that can happen is a polite “no”. Wrong. The maximally bad thing that can happen is asking the Bird Sorcerer type who yells at you for even trying. How many women react like that? Certainly a minority, but I don’t think it’s an incredibly small minority (rememeber that the lizardmen constant is 4%; I wouldn’t be too surprised to find out that at least 4% of women react very negatively to being asked for a date out of the blue).
Maybe, but the lizardmen constant is poll-related and 4% of women answering “yes” to a question like “do you think that men asking girls out of the blue should be severely chastised?” does not seem implausible.
(on a second thought, maybe this proves too much?)