I don’t think the decision theory described here is correct. (I’ve read Planecrash.)
Specifically, there’s an idea in glowfic that it should be possible for lawful deities to follow a policy wherein counterparties can give them arbitrary information, on the condition that information is not used to harm the information-provider. This could be as drastic as “I am enacting my plan to assassinate you now, and would like you to propose edits that we both would want to make to the plan”!
I think this requires agreement ahead of time, and is not the default mode of conversation. (“Can I tell you something, and you won’t get mad?” is a request, not a magic spell to prevent people from getting mad at you.) I think it also is arguably something that people should rarely agree to. Many people don’t agree to the weaker condition of secrecy, because the information they’re about to receive is probably less valuable than the costs of partitioning their mind or keeping information secret. In situations where you can’t use the information against your enemies (like two glowfic gods interacting), the value of the information is going to be even lower, and situations where it makes sense to do such an exchange even rarer. (Well, except for the part where glowfic gods can very cheaply partition their minds and so keeping secrets or doing pseudohypothetical reasoning is in fact much cheaper for them than it is for humans.)
That is, I think this is mostly a plot device that allows for neat narratives, not a norm that you should expect people to be expecting to follow or get called out.
[This is not a complete treatment of the issue; I think most treatments of it only handle one pathway, the “this lets you get information you can use for harm reduction” pathway, and in fact in order to determine whether or not an agent should do it, you must consider all relevant pathways. But I think the presumption should not be “the math pencils out here”, and I definitely don’t think the math pencils out in interacting with Oli. I think characterizing that as “Oli is a bad counterparty” instead of something like “Oli doesn’t follow glowfic!lawful deity norms” or “I regret having Oli as a counterparty” is impolite.]
mmm beef tallow is pretty in these days? I also think there’s got to be some mileage from optimization to find the bliss point.