Thinking out loud here but I can see a classification of preferences into two types:
if it didn’t make me feel good, I wouldn’t want it anymore
if it didn’t make me feel good, I’d still want it
Watching movies is a type 1 preference (with some exceptions): people want to watch movies that they enjoy watching. If a movie is bad, I’ll stop watching it.
For me, donating money to EA causes is a type 2 preference. It doesn’t make me feel good, but it’s still important to me. Parents taking care of their children is a type 2 preference: a lot of times it sucks, but they do it anyway.
I think “lording power over others” is more of a type 1 preference.
That said, I would rather not bet the fate of the world on me being right about this.
Opus 4.6. I’ve never touched my extended thinking settings but it looks like it’s off by default.