Not in-character, I Knew the Name Before It Had One is definitely not something I’d clock as AI on first glance, wow.
Celarix
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I think I get it better, please forgive the repeated checking, I just want to be sure I have it clear since I love thinking about how emotions shape cognition and habit.
My read is now “I have done all I can think of/feel I have the capacity for, but the problem still isn’t solved, and advocacy is the only option I see at this very moment, so that’s what I’ll do for now?”
This seems neat! Just to clarify, do you mean something like “I’ve explained seemingly all currently available facts, but I haven’t fully discharged my emotions on this, so there must be something more I’m missing?”
Oh, okay! This is much clearer and I apologize for not getting your point the first time. I agree pretty much fully with this—insurance companies pushed the envelope until the pain got high enough that, sadly, a CEO lost his life without trial, and that poisoned the well and made it a lot harder on them going forward. It is debatable the exact cause of their retreat on this front, but I do agree more broadly with this.
Then all the more reason to favor a reform to the system so that large companies can be restrained via due process. Everyone has a different idea of who the bad guys are, and many have very high priors that “they” are the ones responsible for all the problems, that “they” are unimpeded by the guardrails as well.
Tribalism makes information believable not because it is true, but because it is useful toward hurting the enemy. These feel the same from the inside. Hating UHC is a lot more justified than people on the Right hating LGBTQ+, by quite a large margin, but to give us the power to hunt down healthcare executives is a step toward giving them more power to hunt down LGBTQ+.
I will throw my support toward a related position: Due process for all. Yes, even him.* To the anti-billionaires:
Is Brian Thompson culpable for mass murder? Great, try him in court and you even get the death penalty if you’d like. Is Luigi Mangione the one who shot him? Not yet proven beyond a reasonable doubt, if the state can’t prove it, then I support him walking free.
The system prevents trying rich people for their crimes? Reform the system. You do not want vigilantism. It will not attack only people you hate, the ones you think are the cause of all the world’s problems. Everyone has a different idea of who that is and open vigilantism means a lot of innocent people will die, including people like you!
An estimate of about 4% (1) of people executed by the state may be innocent. And this is after years of trials, appeals, and investigation! Do you think you can do better?
Love billionaires or hate them, fine, whatever, you can hate whoever you like. But flat-out advocacy for murder is not a door you want to open.
*what’s great about a non-specific “him” is that there’s so many people this applies to! Everyone will fill in their own “him”.
The second half will definitely see some spirited debate, but I do want to point out how good that idea in the first half is—travel time is definitely one of the most easily trackable things to update on, could be good rationality practice to track it more even if you don’t have much of a problem with it. That would also let you be wrong in a guilt-free environment.
The nerd in me wants to start keeping a spreadsheet and track that variance and get a 95% confidence interval. The rationalist in me knows to gently put that urge aside, haha.
Long comment is long. Most of this is either vague, wrong, or stuff you already knew 20 years ago, but I wanted to share my thoughts anyway.
Please note none of this is justification, you will likely think “no, that’s entirely wrong” a lot throughout this. I know, I’m sorry, I wish it could be different.
Most of this is inspired by Scott’s much better post “The Psychopolitics of Trauma”: https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/the-psychopolitics-of-trauma
You can feel badly hurt by something. You can feel badly hurt by something and have every single fact wrong. Diametrically wrong. That doesn’t matter. Emotional wounds run deeper than truth can reach.
We often hear “but Biden” or “but Hillary” or “but the WEF” from the right. Whenever you try to bring one of Trump’s many, many faults to the table, they come back with “but Biden broke it” or “but what about her e-mails?”. Why? What is it about these people that rile up the right make it seem like such a trump card against your argument?
I think everything is tied to everything else in their minds. I think it’s similar to a troubled relationship where any flaw of one person is met with the laundry list of past mistakes. Leave your socks on the floor and you get flak for not rotating the tires earlier or not raking the leaves or being too emotional or whatever.
The hate for Biden is especially humorous. He was President for only 4 years, elected for being the plainest option to beat Trump, and now the right consider him the evil old man who broke it all. I think that Biden isn’t special, nothing he did in particular draws their ire. He’s just the avatar of the left, after Hillary, after Obama, after Clinton. They hate the seat, not the person.
Republicans are hurt, badly hurt. Falsely hurt, but they’ve spent a long time hearing the false reasons. Social media algorithms are a lot of it, every flaw of the right is explained away with a falsity or a bogus study out of context. But I think talk radio had a huge impact first. We mostly kind of ignored it as a ranting person on AM, but I think hearing 3 hours a day of it for decades on end slowly breaks you.
When you listened to Rush Limbaugh, you got to feel like people were on your side. Like someone was pointing out the emperor’s new clothes. That every problem of the right was an inconvenience at worst, never heard about at best. And every flaw of the left, real or not, was amplified, made their whole character. Democrats stopped being bad for specific reasons, they just became bad. And the more bad they seemed, the more you’d believe about them.
And it was 3 hours a day, 5 days a week, for 30 years. I listened to talk radio growing up. I went from “wow, these people are so smart, fighting the left like this!” to “okay, ouch. We have good ideas but we have to present them better, why are you harping on this?” to “There is nothing here for me.”
Now, why Trump? Trump is an anathema to the purported Christian values of the right and yet it doesn’t matter. I don’t really get it myself. But I don’t think logic was ever in play—the farthest right believe in their own correctness first, the logic confabulated later, like the woman with the brain injury unable to update on her paralysis and her brain instead confabulating reasons why she can’t move it (https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/ZiQqsgGX6a42Sfpii/the-apologist-and-the-revolutionary).
Okay, yeah, maybe it’s not that bad. I just think similar mechanisms are in play. I’ve done it myself—my System 1 really wants to not do a thing, and I end up saying lots of words I don’t really believe just to get out of it. A lot of it is tribalism, but a lot of that tribalism here is built on the ceaseless message: “They hurt you. They hate you. They want you gone.”
It is not true. But when you’ve heard it for your whole life, when everyone you respect says it, when charismatic speakers put up logical but false arguments and posit immense conspiracies, and you really have been hurt by something (NAFTA or opioids or algorithms or Walmart or neap tides or whatever), it’s easy for someone to say “Trust me. They hurt you. If you hurt them, you will heal.” as a play for power.
Trump 2 is, god, I don’t know. I think of him more as an RNG than a shrewd planner. No Republican of 2012 (I know this, I was there) cared about Greenland. I don’t know why we want Greenland, even ignoring the horrible things we’d do for it. Why ICE doesn’t seem to be doing much deportation but is threatening a ton of random citizens and even killing them now. There’s a similarly to the paralyzed woman in Scott’s post (in kind but not in scale!) - what they do is random and punitive and senseless, and when asked WTF they are thinking, they confabulate answers based in their rage.
None of it is real. They thought the COVID vaccines were genocide, killing up to 90% of the population. I heard it often, but not one who believed it acted like they did. Imagine if you knew that a full 7,200,000,000 people were going to die! A death toll higher than all war combined. You’d probably be gathering supplies. Getting guns and ammo. Waking up in cold sweat, nightmares of bodies piled up everywhere, beyond too many to bury. The end of your old life. Almost everyone you love dying and you can’t do a damn thing about it. I mean, wouldn’t you at least try to declare war on Pfizer or firebomb a Walgreens or something, if you really believed it?
Some may have taken that idea seriously, I never met any. It wasn’t a belief evaluated, it was just a bunch of words modulated onto screaming, System 1 screaming “THEY HURT US! THEY HATE US!” and System 2 knowing it has to come up with something. Learning about the conspiracy was often a moment of smugness, a moment of “see! see! they do hate us!”, another little dopamine hit of “yep. turns out we’re right again!” rather than the intolerable horror it should have been.
None of their arguments, nor their beliefs, are the real reason they support Trump and his actions. To turn one would require a monumental effort—I think it is possible, but I don’t think most people are capable of it. You can only do it one-on-one, it will take a long time, and you will have to sit and smile to real attacks on your character, on people you love, groups you ally with. It is uncomfortable and I can’t ask anyone to do unless they really need to, and it will look less like “ah, I see now, you’re right” and more like a very slow shift over months or years, all of your ideas ones they think they came up with themselves. It’s not satisfying… but I think it is possible.
Oh, yeah, AI can definitely introduce subtle errors, but maybe at a lower rate? I think the main value is seeing a big change at once, i.e.:
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highlights the error immediately, whatever method is used to perform the quick or instant change.
One additional point in favor of using editing macros to do lots of work at once is that it reduces the odds you might make a mistake. Hand-editing dozens of the the lines of code, especially if it’s very tedious, could mean a typo or two slips in, which could be annoying to go back and fix and can hide in plain sight; an automated macro will either get them all right, or get them all wrong in a similar way, hopefully sticking out.
It’s worth it to learn to sell your own ideas, not in a bullshitting or kissing-up sort of way, but just in learning to present what you believe in your ideas honestly. Then you can be the presenter and the inventor.
Strong upvoted, these guides on what to expect for situation X are very useful, especially when detailed nuts-and-bolts like this. There’s a lot of good stuff here that anyone who has a pneumothorax can use to at least set a baseline of what to expect. I find that too many people stop at “eh, well, everyone kind of knows this” and thus few ever write about it.
Glad you’re okay and that you have such an awesome wife!
“Imagine there’s a child drowning in a shallow pond. You’re wearing a swimsuit and could easily save them. Sounds impausible? No, really, you can just save the kid. Don’t trust it? Okay, let me make it more believable: imagine there’s also a cute puppy guarding the pond that you’d have to kill to reach the child. Would you do it?”
My gut reaction to reading this might illuminate why people don’t take stories about utopia or easily-accomplished things seriously: there doesn’t seem to be much benefit to be gained by telling a story where everything goes well, there’s no dilemma or moral problem, and nothing salient to latch on to.
Imagine there was a TV show about a starship. It is run well, the ship functions normally, the crew go about their days, there’s plenty of power and supplies, the journey is vast and not very notable, their mission of moving cargo between two planets back and forth goes fine with no complaints. Once you got past the 2- or 3-episode explanation and tour of the ship and her crew, there wouldn’t really be much else different on episode 105 as there was on episode 5.
What would it take to make this show better? Conflict of some sort, perhaps between the crew, or with the environment, or the government, or maybe the suppliers/buyers of the cargo, or maybe with the isolating environment of space and the ennui of staring out a mostly-black window 24⁄7.
I also posit that we see this pattern in our own lives; we need something to do with our time, even if that something is just a hobby project or reading a few books. Consider fresh retirees in good shape: home paid off, kids in their own careers and doing well, spouse happy. Many such retirees may choose to take it easy, resting and watching TV, and this often either makes them miserable enough to reconsider or saddles them with health problems from their sedentary lifestyle, sometimes leading to death. Contrast with retirees who still make and keep plans, still go traveling, work on projects.
So that’s my guess. People don’t take stories about happy worlds where nothing goes wrong very seriously because there just isn’t much to say about such worlds, so why write stories about them?
Okay, this is definitely true, too. I also do enjoy a more consistent ability to justify my actions and beliefs, which is far from nothing and not worth writing off. I guess, for me, the missing ingredient is that the other person gets it once I make a logical and reasonable justification; if that happens, I think it’s fine to be friends with a very critical person.
I’m not a regular user of LW, but I wanted to weigh in anyway. The style of endless asymmetric-effort criticism can be very wearing on people with perfectionist or OCD-like tendencies. I am, sadly, one of those people. In my head is a multi-faced voice of rage and criticism that constantly second guesses my decisions and thoughts and says many of the same things about anyone else’s work or life or decisions. This kind of thing is one of the faces, able to find fault in anything and treat it all with importance both high and invariant over any sort of context. I think the voice is something like an IFS firefighter. In fact, here he is now:
wow. You come to LessWrong (stop abbreviating) and you can’t even be bothered to put five seconds into reading Kaj’s Unlocking the Emotional Brain summary to see if it really is a firefighter and not a protector?
It’s exhausting and demoralizing. This is far from the only component, to be fair, and I actually don’t doubt that Said is honestly trying to make the world a better place… but this particular flavor of criticism is not making things better. It can be done well, but this isn’t it. This makes people, over time and without really noticing it at first, get a submodule installed in their heads that constantly criticizes, second guesses, attempts to justify, apologizes for, pre-emptively clarifies, and talks itself out of things in every domain of life.
...though I guess that may be a natural attractor state for minds like this. Still, while the circumstances for the ban are unfortunate, I think it was correct. For anyone who wants to do anything, having enough energy to do it is key, and things like this just drain it. It’s like fighting a wall of molasses.
Small note that is probably pretty simple by the standards of this excellent comment section, but strong emotion is, itself a problem that needs to be solved, often first. It’s like snowfall on the driveway. Some people get a little with the vagaries of life, others get a lot. Sometimes it melts quickly, sometimes you have to shovel it.
To be less metaphorical, people need to feel believed, cared for, and like they’d be listened to. Nail-in-head woman might be a bit silly to not take the nail out of her head, and I used to believe something closer to that in the general case. These days, though, when someone is having trouble with something and their head is clouded to obvious solutions, I might like to:
Hug them if they’re willing
Listen for awhile, and hold in mind that my initial advice might be wrong, insufficient, and that they’ve probably already tried some of my ideas early on
Ask questions and iterate to try to find what the underlying problems is (LessWrong and Rationality helped me a ton in trying to debug my own mind and find better ways to formulate the problems I face)
Feeling seen, feeling heard, believed—it seems pretty important for a lot of people in ways that I may not fully understand yet. I know politics is the mindkiller, so I won’t dive too deep, but I will say that it seems a lot of online political discussion doesn’t get past the “this issue is real and mostly like we say it is, your lack of belief hurts” stage.
That first, and then we can talk solutions.
Oh, definitely, I truly think this is most of the explanation, but was curious how much the other direction contributed.
Small hypothesis that I’m not very confident of at all but is worth mentioning because I’ve seen it surfaced by others:
“We live in the safest era in human history, yet we’re more terrified of death than ever before.”
What if these things are related? Everyone talks about kids being kept in smaller and smaller ranges despite child safety never higher, but what if keeping kids in a smaller range is what causes their greater safety?
Like I said, I don’t fully believe this. One counterargument is that survivorship bias shouldn’t apply here—even if people in the past died much more often from preventable safety-related things like accidents or kidnappings, their friends and family would remain to report their demise to the world. In other words, if free-roaming was really as risky as we think it is, there should be tons of stories of it from the past, and I don’t tend to see as many.
(although maybe comment threads I read on the matter select for happy stories on free-roaming as a kid in the 80s and select against sad ones, I dunno)
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