I’m an Astra Fellow working with Redwood Research on high-stakes control methods.
In reverse date order, I have been a:
MATS 8.1 scholar, mentored by Micah Carroll
We wrote the paper Prompt Optimization Makes Misalignment Legible
Software engineer at Google Gemini
Worked part-time with GDM Scalable Alignment on their MONA paper
President of Cornell Effective Altruism
I enjoy tabletop games (as a player or GM), board games, meditation, partner dancing, bouldering, making music, reading (esp. hard sci-fi/fantasy), podcasts, and hanging out with my friends.
The kind of intellectual work I enjoy often involves thinking about systems, working out what they incentivize, and iterating to improve those incentives.
I have not signed any contracts that I can’t mention exist, as of March 27, 2026. I’ll try to update this statement at least once a year, so long as it’s true. I added this statement thanks to the one in the gears to ascension’s bio.
Similar to @β-redex, I think if this had happened to me, it wouldn’t have occurred to me that you were interested in escalating the playfulness. Doing more to communicate what you’re hoping for (while giving an out for people who aren’t so interested) may be helpful here.
An alternative approach is to enter a context/community/group where people have a stronger prior on playfulness being desired. Do you have any particular communities in mind when you say you “don’t get [playfulness] from this one”? I thought of a few ideas:
Improv (your imaginary scenario reminds me of the “yes and” principle)
Roleplaying (LARPs, maybe certain tabletop games)
Clowning (never done it, but my friend encountered it at Vibecamp and has since continued to enjoy it, see below)
Vibecamp (I’ve never attended, but generally the stuff they do there sounds like the kind of thing you’re interested in)
Looks like ticket sales close today, and the event starts this Thursday, so if you’re interested in a very spontaneous camping trip, the upside may be high!
EDIT: I thought more about how cool Vibecamp looks and just decided to buy a ticket. If anyone else is attending and wants to meet up, feel free to DM me!