I’m a supporter of helping protect Taiwan, but it’s useful to know the Chinese view is that Taiwan is a part of their country going back to the civil war, one they have never officially conceded as having ended and have never acknowledged Taiwan as anything but an internal issue to them.
Sure at some point it gets kinda silly to keep insisting “someday we’ll get them” instead of just giving up, but that does mean it’s not a good example of China being hostile towards foreign powers.
One of the required secondary powers of OCD is this, a disordered ability to shut down your intrusive thoughts and feelings. If they could just make it go away intuitively, they would.
Maybe it’s possible for many to train their feelings away with enough sustained effort still, but it’s clearly far more difficult to stop the thoughts than most people face.