I’m an admin of LessWrong. Here are a few things about me.
I generally feel more hopeful about a situation when I understand it better.
I have signed no contracts nor made any agreements whose existence I cannot mention.
I believe it is good take responsibility for accurately and honestly informing people of what you believe in all conversations; and also good to cultivate an active recklessness for the social consequences of doing so.
It is wrong to directly cause the end of the world. Even if you are fatalistic about what is going to happen.
Okay. But I nonetheless believe it’s necessary that we have to judge communication sometimes by outcomes rather than by process.
Like, as a lower stakes examples, sometimes you try to teasingly make a joke at your friend’s expense, but they just find it mean, and you take responsibility for that and apologize. Just because you thought you were behaving right and communicating well doesn’t mean you were, and sometimes you accept feedback from others that says you misjudged a situation. I don’t have all the rules written down such that if you follow them your friend will read your comments as intended, sometimes I just have to check.
Similarly sometimes you try to criticize an author, but they take it as implying you’ll push back whenever they enforce boundaries on LessWrong, and then you apologize and clarify that you do respect them enforcing boundaries in general but stand by the local criticism. (Or you don’t and then site-mods step in.) I don’t have all the rules written down such that if you follow them the author will read your comments as intended, sometimes I just have to check.
Obviously mod powers can be abused, and having to determine on a case by case basis is a power that can be abused. Obviously it involves judgment calls. I did not disclaim this, I’m happy for anyone to point it out, perhaps nobody has mentioned it so far in this thread so it’s worth making sure the consideration is mentioned. And yeah, if you’re asking, I don’t endorse “nothing that makes authors feel bad about bans”, and there are definitely situations where I think it would be appropriate for us to reverse someone’s bans (e.g. if someone banned all of the top 20 authors in the LW review, I would probably think this is just not workable on LW and reverse that).