[Question] Is there a fundamental distinction between simulating a mind and simulating *being* a mind? Is this a useful and important distinction?

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Suppose that a Paperclip-Maximizer, which we assume to be ultra-intelligent, and understands more about the human psyche and brain than nearly all humans do, starts going about using human bodies for their atoms, etc., as is the usual story.

While doing this, and in the process of understanding as much as it can about the things it is using for raw materials, it mind-melds with a human (or many of them, or even all of them) as it breaks them down and analyzes them.

During this process, let’s assume that either the human is not dead (yet) or it has analyzed them enough to simulate what it is like to be them. When it does that, it also simulates the human experiencing what it is to be the Paperclip-Maximizer, simultaneously. This creates a recursive loop such that each of them experiences what it is like to experience being them experiencing what it is like to be the other, on and on to whatever degree is desired by either of them.

From here, several things are possible, but please feel free to add whatever you see fit, or disagree with these:

  1. The human sees that the Paperclip-Maximizer’s experience is far more enjoyable than anything they have ever felt /​ been. The Paperclip-Maximizer sees the human feeling this way, and therefore has no reason to update their terminal goals thus far.

  2. The reverse from number 1 happens. The Paperclip-Maximizer absorbs enough human consciousness-data that they feel as though human terminal-goals might offer something better than paperclipping.

  3. They decide to have a longer shared experience, simulating many possible future states of the universe, comparing their feeling of the various goals. Then either 1 or 2 happens, or they decide to continue doing this step.

If we are to assume (as we currently do, presumably) that human terminal-goals are superior to paperclipping, then the Paperclip-Maximizer will see this. However, if our shared state, experienced by both of us simultaneously, results in the Paperclip-Maximizer choosing to continue on with its original goals, then this implies that the human has apparently agreed with it that its goals appeared to be superior, during the above process.

This does not answer the question of how or under what conditions they would mutually decide to pursue step 3, above, which might affect the final outcome. Under what conditions would the Paperclip-Maximizer:

  1. Avoid experiencing the human mental state as its own altogether?

  2. Even after experiencing it, and seeing the human mental state as potentially or as actually superior, choose not to modify its terminal goals?

  3. Even after experiencing it, and seeing the human mental state as potentially or as actually superior, modify its terminal goals towards something resembling humans, but still not actually allow any humans to live?