Personally I think I actually tend to anthropomorphize more as a result of my ability to guess what others are thinking being learned rather than instinctive. Because I really am using the same circuitry for comprehending people as I do for comprehending car engines and computers and using it in essentially the same way.
But I may not be typical. Best guess is that my particular quirks are mostly the result of a childhood head injury rather than anything genetic.
Try “The Two Faces of Tomorrow”, by James P. Hogan. Fictional evidence, to be sure, but well thought out fiction that demonstrates the problem well.