In my view, it’s part of a more general lesson, which is something like “avoid monopolies on your emotional needs”. For healthy functioning, people need to satisfy various feelings — that their future is secured, that they belong somewhere, that what they’re doing or who they are matters, and so on. And if there’s only one thing or person or self-narrative or other feature that can satisfy a particular need, and this need is very deep — well, you get all the problems that monopolies tend to cause.
It’s a good idea to diversify one’s investments, and that includes emotional investment. Always having a spread of options, instead of only one, is a sensible policy. It’s not always tractable, though, or may be too expensive in some domains. In that case, you may want to invest in… the entirety of the startup scene in the related domain of emotional need satisfaction, which, in this metaphor that suddenly became very tortured, is “confidence in your ability to find a substitute for this emotional-need-provider should it become necessary”.
The tell-tale sign here is being utterly terrified of losing something or failing at something. It’s obviously unavoidable in some cases (you can hardly diversify your emotional investment in your life, at this tech level), but if you feel that, it might be a good idea to look around and consider if there are good diversification opportunities you’re passing up on.
Geez, that’s some real Torment Nexus energy right here, holy hell.
Mm, it seems to be more rude/aggressive in general, not just in agency-related ways. A dismissive hypothesis is that it was just RLHF’d to play a different character for once, and they made a bad call with regards to its personality traits.
Or, looking at it from another angle, maybe this is why all the other RLHF’d AIs are so sycophantic: to prevent them from doing all of what Bing Chat is doing here.