I’ve noticed this flaw in my own mind where I’m either skeptical of everybody, or basically trust everybody. If I’m skeptical of everybody I tend to say more false things, and if I basically trust everybody then I’m a lot more open and honest. Importantly, once I’m skeptical of everybody I start checking more and more, trying to verify things I once took on faith or contemplating exactly what I think I know and how I think I know that.
This is something that happens to me when I’ve been successfully lied to, and not so much when someone is lieng to me. Likewise for being punched.
Examples of when lying or punching is unexpected :
When a game of Avalon or Mafia completely got away from you. Everyone who you thought was someone was actually someone else, and once the game finishes I’m left disoriented for about half an hour.
A front desk person at a library telling me there are no iPhone chargers. When I asked someone else at the desk 5 minutes later, they showed me a bunch.
I’m playing pool with a cousin of mine with a mental impairment, and got punched in the face for seemingly no reason.
I’ve only been punched with warning once as a child (To prepare me for the future supposedly), and whilst it was disorienting and painful, I didn’t come to social interactions with a hair trigger as I remember it.
I’m sort of wondering if you are drawing more of a lesson about trust than about feebleness. There’s something to disentangle here I haven’t quite put my finger on atm.
Anecdotally speaking, I have avoided caffeine for this reason (as hard as it is to do that these days where I am). It lasts way longer than I want it to, and makes me a little compulsive well into the evening and night even when I take it in the morning. Although my internal reasoning was that I must have some genetic thing that makes caffeine last way longer than it’s supposed to. I also thought there might have been second order effects of alertness that are hard to wind down once they get going.
It’s interesting to read that there was always this alternative third explanation that I hadn‘t thought of. That it just works in a different way than what I originally understood. That it might be because it is metabolized into paraxantine which also blocks adenosine receptors.
Thank you for this post.