Thank you for this detailed answer.
Some more questions:
notice if it’s something that calls to you
I am not sure exactly what you mean here. From what I am reading, it is very difficult to know what it is without having experienced it. So how am I supposed to know? Do you have examples of motivations that would not be right?
(I would say that I personally feel very curious as to what it looks like, and that I would be significantly sad to learn that I can’t even try to get there.)
I highly recommend practicing as part of an organized community. […] You’re also looking for a teacher who can be your mentor in all this.
I expected that. Then:
What are the standard keywords I should look for? What I mean is that I know quite nothing about the surrounding culture. Would I be looking for a “Buddhist church”? A “Zen temple”? — Are those the same? — A “meditation school”? Something else entirely?
What if there is no such community in my city? Is there a next best thing that still permits me to start that journey, or is your advice to not try that without a local community?
If you had time for writing a bit about the pros and cons of a few books, I would be very interested.