Here’s my lightning talk: I collect advice for learning how to play chess. The largest collection I’ve found is a slim book called “Rapid Chess Improvement” by Michael de la Maza.
Please send me the rarest advice you’ve heard of for improving one’s chess ability.
I’m sorry to hear that. What helped me was finding (after many years) a non-denominational church where I could get a community and weekly lectures on morality but without the supernatural baggage.
Good luck!