I think in non-poly couples, having a mostly Builder or Entertaining relationship is a sign that one or both parties is having an affair.
This is because all the happy couples I know seem to have ~50:50 ratio of building/​entertaining. And the unhappy couples have ~0:0. And I only know non-poly couples.
I think in non-poly couples, having a mostly Builder or Entertaining relationship is a sign that one or both parties is having an affair.
This is because all the happy couples I know seem to have ~50:50 ratio of building/​entertaining. And the unhappy couples have ~0:0. And I only know non-poly couples.