I have a pretty strong negative reaction to the idea of deliberately holding my child back so they’re less bored when around kids who aren’t as skilled.
I’d much rather handle that problem in some other way.
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Seems good! I wasn’t really trying to do letters with my younger one until he had more words. Starting with letter sounds and playing with magnet letters or letter blocks is a good way to get them interested.
I have now posted a couple decodable books on my website, here: https://tigrennatenn.neocities.org/decodable_books/ I expect to add more now that I’ve got a setup for making them digitally.
A great thing about Seuss is how well it scans. It’s stunning to me how many children’s books have truly awful meter. The whole point is to make it easy to read! They just don’t even bother!
Oh wow, that is good to know. I tried experimenting with the font options and found that xx-large wasn’t nearly big enough, I didn’t realize I could just put “200px” in as the size and have that actually work. Awesome! I’ll have to play with this more (assuming I don’t get complaints about the cards not all being hand-drawn anymore, lol).
I definitely was not expecting a co-maintainer of Ankidroid to read this post, wow!! Thanks for uh, doing that!
He has not! I haven’t examined that one for full decodability but it’s probably pretty good. We might try it sometime.
Mostly fun. I think I likely would have done it anyway. Kids are people already, and can benefit from being able to read now even if it doesn’t change future academic success.
Generally bribes are considered a useful practice in behaviorist psychology (mostly used on animals, but occasionally people). My vague understanding is that education literature shows that using extrinsic motivators like bribes can reduce intrinsic motivation for a task, sometimes. I am not worried about bribing them to do Anki; that’s not that intrinsically motivating and I think it’s worth the push to get him good enough at reading words to enjoy using the skill. I’m a tiny bit worried about bribing him to read, but I suspect that once he gets to escape velocity and is interested enough to read himself, he will do it anyway. I may move to reducing bribes for reading or limiting them to specific situations to limit any damage here.
You may overestimate the amount of effort I put into this. I enjoy it a lot, and the books are effort, but the Anki and such is really pretty straightforward and easy. I would say that, say, potty training was much more difficult (albeit shorter, thankfully). Certainly we spend a lot of time talking to him and trying to teach him about various subjects. He watches Numberblocks and we also spend a lot of time talking about numbers, reading books at bedtime, etc. I don’t have as clear a curriculum for any of the other things you mention; if I did, maybe I’d use them. Reading unlocks independent learning for many other things, so I think it’s a reasonable place to focus effort for that reason. But a lot of it is probably just “I could see a way to do this so I did” vs other subjects that are harder for me to teach. Hopefully that answers your question?
Very slightly! We’ve been interested in using household incentives/auctions for a long time (wrote web apps to use auctions to distribute chores twice before kids were born) and have wanted to incorporate that for a while, and we started using Numberblocks as a reading incentive before I’d ever heard of Alpha School. The post on ACX about Alpha School was the final push for me to start the token system, though.
I disagree—I trust them, but I still think the process is important. If you don’t want to read the words, you don’t have to, but I feel better that they’re there.
See, I think the description of the challenges you set for them is the most helpful part of this whole post! If you have any more you can think of, please do share them.
the basic idea was: hold the kid, with less and less support over time. Beyond that, I was just winging it.
Can you give more description of what you did in your 30-minute sessions? Holding the kid the whole time? Taking breaks? Did they/you get bored? Did you do any other playing in the water to make it more interesting for them?
My own belief about why so many people didn’t want to believe Quirrell was Voldemort is that Eliezer is nearly incapable of writing characters that people actually dislike (perhaps due to, as mentioned: “make every character awesome,” “give characters understandable flaws drawn from real life”).
See also: Ferrer Maillol, a guy who literally orders the main(ish) character to be tortured and was still quite likable!
Thank you for this description of why Hermione isn’t really a second protagonist, I was struggling to put a very similar feeling into words. She simply doesn’t resonate in the same way that Harry does, even though in various ways she is set up to do “protagonisty things” taken at face value.
No, it’s supposed to be for June 20th, sorry.
Update: this week we’ll be singing Ballad of Smallpox Gone in honor of Smallpox Eradication Day yesterday. Also: please do RSVP if you haven’t yet.
What would a problem solving approach to this in the form of LW comments even look like?
Thanks, added that to the post! I made double last year and I think it was about 2 dozen, so that sounds about right.
The original recipe used eggs instead of banana and butter instead of coconut oil, so those are certainly doable as replacements. For other vegan options, I like chickpea flour as an egg replacer because it’s cheap and shelf-stable, though there’s also Just Egg or other commercial egg replacers. For the coconut oil, any solid fat will do, e.g. Crisco or any vegan butter (though most of those contain coconut oil).
I would suggest taking out the paganism verse in Bold Orion. We never use it, dunno about you guys.
Empirically my answer to this is yes: I’m due in January with my second.
When I had my first child, I was thinking in terms of longer timelines. I assumed before having them that it would not be worth having a child if the world ended within a few years of their birth, because I would be less happy and their utility wouldn’t really be much until later.
One month after my first baby was born, I had a sudden and very deep feeling that if the world ended tomorrow, it would have been worth it.
YMMV of course, but having kids can be a very deep human experience that pays off much sooner than you might think.
See also: https://thingofthings.substack.com/p/on-ameliatarianism