Probably very true on one level (but the young need some of that type of random experience to even learn what they want or who they want to be or be with).
But I’m not sure that is relevant for John’s question, but perhaps have taken his query incorrectly and it’s not about just meeting someone new for some unspecified level of commitment, e.g., just a short-term hookup, but is asking about where to meet his next long-term partner.
My primary motivation was actually just to understand how the world works; I didn’t necessarily plan to use that information to meet anyone at all. I just noticed I was confused about something and wanted to figure out what was going on.
Probably very true on one level (but the young need some of that type of random experience to even learn what they want or who they want to be or be with).
But I’m not sure that is relevant for John’s question, but perhaps have taken his query incorrectly and it’s not about just meeting someone new for some unspecified level of commitment, e.g., just a short-term hookup, but is asking about where to meet his next long-term partner.
My primary motivation was actually just to understand how the world works; I didn’t necessarily plan to use that information to meet anyone at all. I just noticed I was confused about something and wanted to figure out what was going on.