If you wrote a rude comment in response to me, I wouldn’t feel bad about myself, but I would feel annoyed at you. (I feel bad about myself when I think my comments were foolish in retrospect or when I think they were unnecessarily rude in retrospect; the rudeness of replies to me don’t really affect how I feel about myself.) Other people are more likely to be hurt by rude comments, I think.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Tim found your comment frustrating and it made him less likely to want to write things like this in future. I don’t super agree with Tim’s post, but I do think LW is better if it’s the kind of place where people like him write posts like that (and then get polite pushback).
I have other thoughts here but they’re not very important.
(fwiw I agree with Buck that the comment seemed unnecessarily rude and we should probably have less of rudeness on lesswrong, but I don’t feel deterred from posting.)
If you wrote a rude comment in response to me, I wouldn’t feel bad about myself, but I would feel annoyed at you. (I feel bad about myself when I think my comments were foolish in retrospect or when I think they were unnecessarily rude in retrospect; the rudeness of replies to me don’t really affect how I feel about myself.) Other people are more likely to be hurt by rude comments, I think.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Tim found your comment frustrating and it made him less likely to want to write things like this in future. I don’t super agree with Tim’s post, but I do think LW is better if it’s the kind of place where people like him write posts like that (and then get polite pushback).
I have other thoughts here but they’re not very important.
(fwiw I agree with Buck that the comment seemed unnecessarily rude and we should probably have less of rudeness on lesswrong, but I don’t feel deterred from posting.)