[Question] Whence unchangeable values?

Some values don’t change. Maybe sometimes that’s because a system isn’t “goal seeking.” For example, AlphaZero doesn’t change its value of “board-state = win.” (Thankfully! Because if that changed to “board-state = not lose,” then a reasonable instrumental goal might be to just kill its opponent.)

But I’m a goal seeking system. Shard theory seems to posit terminal values that constantly pop up and vy for position in humans like me. But certain values of mine seem impossible to change. Like, I can’t decide to desire my own misery/​pain/​suffering.

So if terminal values aren’t static, what about the values that are? Are these even more terminal? Or is it something else?