If I’m understanding, you’re saying that being well-received by an online audience when sharing hidden things has less to do with the unacceptability of the thing itself, and more to do with the talent of the writer. Talent in selecting the right people to present to, framing the subject to pique their interest, and just in being plain good with words.
This seems probably true to me, but you might underestimate how big a caveat “having the skills to provide value to an audience” is. An established platform, with writerly experience and long-term feedback on what people respond well to and what they don’t—if you have all these things already, it seems to me you’re already most of the way out of the thicket of feeling not-seen, not-validated, unsafe, etc. Without the grounding of confidence that you can provide value to an audience, revealing hidden things still seems pretty risky.
Plus, if one doesn’t have writing talent, generalized-coming-out-of-the-closet seems like a bad way to try and build it. Then you’re risking the bad feelings of having something shameful exposed publicly, in addition to the general badness of not being received well.
I think the skill of baring your soul to the world (successfully) is really admirable, so I hope I’m wrong and it’s not as risky as it seems.
Why do they call it ‘stream entry’? Also, what is stream entry?