One of the things I try to be careful of, as a rationalist, is to note when the “standard definitions” are importing connotations that go beyond the textual meaning of the word. In this case, like Said Achmiz, I’ve noticed that “authentic” and “authenticity” are often used as applause lights, serving to engender vaguely positive feelings in the mind of the person reading the text, without actually adding any data or predictions.
Specifically, I’m pointing at the following paragraph:
Why should “that which can be destroyed by the truth” be destroyed? Because the truth is fundamentally more real and valuable than what it replaces, which must be implemented on a deeper level than “what my current beliefs think.” Similarly, why should “that which can be destroyed by authenticity” be destroyed? Because authenticity is fundamentally more real and valuable than what it replaces, which must be implemented on a deeper level than “what my current beliefs think.” I don’t mean to pitch ‘radical honesty’ here, or other sorts of excessive openness; authentic relationships include distance and walls and politeness and flexible preferences.
What are “authentic” and “authenticity” doing here? It seems to me that they could easily be replaced by “healthy” and “health”. And if they were, I think it would be entirely justified for someone less familiar with the context to ask what that word means to the person writing here.
So let me put it plainly: what is an “authentic” relationship? How does one distinguish an authentic relationship from an inauthentic one? The text clearly states that an authentic relationship can still include “distance and walls and politeness and flexible preferences”. So given that inauthentic relationships can also be characterized as including those very same elements, what sorts of distances, walls, politeness and flexible preferences distinguish an authentic relationship from an inauthentic one?
What Stanislav Petrov did was just as unilateralist as any of the examples linked in the OP. We must remember that when he chose to disregard the missile alert (based off his own intuition regarding the geopolitics of the world), he was violating direct orders. Yes, in this case everything turned out great, but let’s think about the counterfactual scenario where the missile attack had been real. Stanislav Petrov would potentially have been on the hook for more deaths than Hitler and the utter destruction of his nation.
A unilateral choice not to act is as much of a unilateral choice as a unilateral choice to act.