hi, thanks for the reply.
If the gamblers truly know that they’re going to lose money then there’d be no thrill, and if they don’t know they’re going to lose money then they’re not making a fair purchase.
they expect to lose money. the uncertainty is the point. they trade expected value for increased variance.
when i buy a lotto ticket, i expect to lose a dollar. but it’s still fun to fantasize about what will happen if i win big.
Also, as a separate point, I’m not sure sending money to an e-girl even *is* cheaper than dating?
it obviously is, in terms of time, money, risk, … . some people may be at a time in their life where the transactional nature of the e-girl relationship is valued for its simplicity.
I think this is a compression of a biaxial state-space into a single Boolean value. [...]
look, overall, i really disagree with this whole paragraph. it seems your project is still to appeal to some objective morality, which can determine for us whether each person’s actions are good or bad. that is, the value of a book is whether you learn from it; the value of a gamble is whether you make money; the value of an e-girl is whether you get married and raise a family.
my point is that this is an absurd way to look at the world. people engage in activities for any number of reasons. it is not up to us to decide on or evaluate those reasons.
“playing casino games is not an efficient way to make money! you’d be better off just not playing casino games!” <-> the conclusion here should not be “they are stupid/don’t know themselves” but rather “they are getting something out of casino games that i don’t understand.”
of course, i’m happy with the argument “you are trying to make money; the casino is not a good way to do that.” i’m happy with this since it engages directly with the actor’s preferences, and tries to help them achieve those preferences better. good! a great service has been provided!
but the point is that this argument is saved by virtue of appealing to a specific actor. when we try to make it in general (“people in casinos are trying to make money; casinos are not reliable at that.”) then it becomes bizarre, authoritarian, grim.
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the original essay used this category as an example of “people who have no advantage in the marketplace, but are sometimes able to succeed.” whether or not “charlatans, loose women, and the unpitiable poor” are a reasonable category (now expanded to include “gambling houses, witches, and quack doctors”), do you feel that it was the natural category to reach for to illustrate this point?
if so, why would a more neutral example—like a coffee shop—not work just as well?
i don’t believe such an object (as the c program) can exist, so i don’t think we learn anything (except about our own priors) from considering it.