Guys who care about openness and honesty should continue to be open and honest; and the women who are turned off by this are best avoided by us, tbh. Unless you (as the guy) are also into non-consent, the sex with someone who isn’t visibly/legibly into you isn’t great.
Eneasz
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I’ve done audio for Ben’s HPMoR/Disco Elysium crossover story. It’s here—https://hpmorpodcast.com/?p=3476
It’s not ideal, I think next time I’ll get someone with a voice much closer to the narrator for the game. But here is my shot at an audio version of this. https://hpmorpodcast.com/?p=3476
Soul-Whore
Lighthaven Sequences Reading Group #58 (Tuesday 11/25)
Lighthaven Sequences Reading Group #57 (Tuesday 11/18)
Being The Target Demographic
Jealous rage is terrible. I disagree that it’s a clinging love, which is what I would associate with jealous rage. This is a protective love.
I agree that acting on this desire would often be sub-optimal, but I’m not advocating acting on it. I’m saying that it’s there, and it’s good to acknowledge, and honestly I think it’s good that it’s there even if it is sub-optimal in many parts of the modern world.
The latest episode of the Bayesian Conspiracy podcast is a discussion of this post (starting at minute 31).
https://www.thebayesianconspiracy.com/2026/01/253-the-seven-vicious-vices-of-rationalists/