A second year computer engineering student studying at FRCRCE, Mumbai, India.
Ashutosh
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The way I experience ‘love’ the way I described above there is no clear love more or less of a particular trait.
Does that mean love has no impact on your decision making? Say you love two people equally for different traits, competence or kindess, take your example you have a trolley running towards Jack/John and you could switch it towards John/Jack, will you abstain from such a decision due to lack of preferential treatment or is love just a thing up in the air with no impact on your inclinations?
Ashutosh’s Shortform
The status related emotions are quite difficult to manage, one way I like to think of it is proportionality rather than equality, I know you probably don’t want to give up on SJW stuff, but textbook case for equality was getting too unbearable for me, I live in mumbai and it’s not possible for me to stay in a “bubble”, I only judge a person’s skill level proportional to who they’re and from where they have come, it would be marvelous for an ant to use lever about a fulcrum but for a modern human being it’s quite mundane. A person coming from bottom of the barrel to top is much more exceptional and worthy of attention, rather than an elite passing on the flag in their relay race.
There’re a lot of other status related emotions that I struggle with, of course the rationalist sin of underconfidence is one of them, it’s almost as if my attempt to not be elitists cuts in the opposite direction—ranking myself as low status, which makes socializing difficult. I am still figuring this out. I am no elite by any means, but being better at some things makes you realize how horrible others are at that thing , so much so that you can start questioning yourself on grounds of social conformity (modest epistemology) that maybe it’s the other way around.
This is what I tell people, you don’t get to have preservative less food of perfect preservation without it being economically feasible, you get to have stale food, tradeoffs to everything.