Women are welcome to use any sort of logic and accept the consequences, just as I accept the consequences of my own choice. Filtering away many “unsuitable” women at the cost of annoying some “suitable” ones is a tradeoff I’m okay with. Can you argue that including my salary on my profile will make me better off overall, not just with respect to you?
That probably depends on your salary and the details of the preferences that caused you to leave it off (i.e. who exactly you hope to be filtering out/filtering in).
Currently, I live with roommates who don’t expect me to pay rent because I cook tasty food and do some cleaning. This is sort of like being a house spouse without the “spouse” part, and you know what? I like it as much as I thought I would! It suits me very well! I’d like to go on with this sort of lifestyle, barring the insistent knock of implausible opportunity, even after I settle into a long-term relationship. But the thing is—this arrangement only works with someone else funding the operation.
This describes exactly the type of woman I’d intended to exclude all along. I guess my comment made me sound like I have a bitter hate of “golddiggers”, and this wasn’t really the intention. Girls who want me to fund them are not necessarily bad girls. They’re just not for me.
Women are welcome to use any sort of logic and accept the consequences, just as I accept the consequences of my own choice. Filtering away many “unsuitable” women at the cost of annoying some “suitable” ones is a tradeoff I’m okay with. Can you argue that including my salary on my profile will make me better off overall, not just with respect to you?
That probably depends on your salary and the details of the preferences that caused you to leave it off (i.e. who exactly you hope to be filtering out/filtering in).
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This describes exactly the type of woman I’d intended to exclude all along. I guess my comment made me sound like I have a bitter hate of “golddiggers”, and this wasn’t really the intention. Girls who want me to fund them are not necessarily bad girls. They’re just not for me.