Quite likely obvious to you, but to save near-me minds a step: this doesn’t mean you can’t ever tell people they did something annoying unnecessarily. Some minds that produce annoyance in others frequently would in principle like to not do that, but have had trouble updating away from it. If one can identify that the person who replied ~arrogantly is someone who doesn’t think they need to express ~arrogance in order to criticize, they can likely be requested-to-update. But of course that wouldn’t work for some.
Quite likely obvious to you, but to save near-me minds a step: this doesn’t mean you can’t ever tell people they did something annoying unnecessarily. Some minds that produce annoyance in others frequently would in principle like to not do that, but have had trouble updating away from it. If one can identify that the person who replied ~arrogantly is someone who doesn’t think they need to express ~arrogance in order to criticize, they can likely be requested-to-update. But of course that wouldn’t work for some.
Your use of hyperlinks is very amusing to me.