“Go die, idiot” is generally bad behavior, but not because it’s “lacking respect”.
confusingly contradicts (semantically if not substantively)
“Do I respect you as a person?” fits well with the “treat someone like a person” meaning. It means I value not burning bridges by saying things like “Go die, idiot”
I basically agree with you, but this
confusingly contradicts (semantically if not substantively)
It is lacking respect, but it’s not bad because it’s lacking respect. The badness is separate.