Is it actually true that Eliezer likes hurting people in bed? I think I recall reading something from him where he claims that orgasm denial is a central example of what he’s into, which sounds spiritually different to me.
His old okcupid page (sorry, it looks like the wayback machine doesn’t have it an accessible copy of http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Eyudkowsky) said that he was into orgasm denial, but only if his partner is also into it.
Is it actually true that Eliezer likes hurting people in bed? I think I recall reading something from him where he claims that orgasm denial is a central example of what he’s into, which sounds spiritually different to me.
His old okcupid page (sorry, it looks like the wayback machine doesn’t have it an accessible copy of http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Eyudkowsky) said that he was into orgasm denial, but only if his partner is also into it.