[Question] How to learn from a stronger rationalist in daily life?

As mentioned in my previous post, I currently estimate that I am about as strong in applied rationality as the average CS undergrad. But I know Mark Xu, who has gone to CFAR, and is certainly stronger than me, enough to occasionally find interventions that can fix my problems. I don’t want my friendship to become a formal mentorship, and the gains from taking advice or copying someone else’s interventions into one’s own life run out quickly. There’s even the risk that I stop thinking for myself when my best judgment is on average more wrong than base rates + someone else’s opinion.

Personal details aside, are there exercises/​drills in applied rationality where one participant is much stronger than the other, but doesn’t have CFAR instructor-level skills? I’m especially interested in examples that work in situations similar to mine, both for selfish reasons and because I suspect this situation is fairly common. Even more valuable would be a general framework.