I felt a bit uplifted from reading this, and I would love to see more of this on LW. This is more of a direct response to a problem—and so you are not only ‘looking’ at the problem, but your action is a good approach at solving it.
I do have some views that could be of use, but I mean, I wasn’t in this dialogue, you didn’t invite me and so being a ‘backseat participant’ feels a tad odd. Conversations of this kind are more situational in my experience, and so even when you post it—I just assume that the Form and the Content might be separate. If things are otherwise, I’d love to chip in.
Healthy and productive dialogue is good to see, and getting closer to a workable goal, and the process hereto, has broader application. Seeing this kind of dialogue is something I would absolutely love to see, for various reasons. By exploring things in this way, many ideas and concepts might be ‘helped’ out of their shell by a little water in the form of understanding, willingness to understand and being on the same page enough to make useful plays that help the other person improve upon what they have already got. I believe seeing how this is done is useful, not only as an inspiration, but also a practical guide into how things ‘could be’, instead of chopping left and right. Moreover, it is a good alternative way to explore themes and ideas without the boxed form of writing a post or a question. I guess it caters more to the Extrovert processing side of things—where it is useful, and necessary, for progress to have someone to bounce your ideas off of.
I guess if I were there, I guess I would have wanted to connect what you talked about to specific terms that might further clarify what kind of solution(s) you were looking for. Or, in plain English, to ask which of these needs-categories (NVC-list page 3&4)would best fit what you wanted to talk about.
I mean, you are already meeting a lot of needs, but if you go back to the start, and you ask Which of these categories of needs best fit what you feel right now—It might have served as a decent anchor point both of you could have used to fill in confusing blanks.
Hello habryka and kave,
I felt a bit uplifted from reading this, and I would love to see more of this on LW. This is more of a direct response to a problem—and so you are not only ‘looking’ at the problem, but your action is a good approach at solving it.
I do have some views that could be of use, but I mean, I wasn’t in this dialogue, you didn’t invite me and so being a ‘backseat participant’ feels a tad odd. Conversations of this kind are more situational in my experience, and so even when you post it—I just assume that the Form and the Content might be separate. If things are otherwise, I’d love to chip in.
Healthy and productive dialogue is good to see, and getting closer to a workable goal, and the process hereto, has broader application. Seeing this kind of dialogue is something I would absolutely love to see, for various reasons.
By exploring things in this way, many ideas and concepts might be ‘helped’ out of their shell by a little water in the form of understanding, willingness to understand and being on the same page enough to make useful plays that help the other person improve upon what they have already got. I believe seeing how this is done is useful, not only as an inspiration, but also a practical guide into how things ‘could be’, instead of chopping left and right. Moreover, it is a good alternative way to explore themes and ideas without the boxed form of writing a post or a question. I guess it caters more to the Extrovert processing side of things—where it is useful, and necessary, for progress to have someone to bounce your ideas off of.
Kindly,
Caerulea-Lawrence
Thanks for sharing this. I generally want dialogues to feel open for comment afterwards
Thanks,
I guess if I were there, I guess I would have wanted to connect what you talked about to specific terms that might further clarify what kind of solution(s) you were looking for. Or, in plain English, to ask which of these needs-categories (NVC-list page 3&4)would best fit what you wanted to talk about.
I mean, you are already meeting a lot of needs, but if you go back to the start, and you ask Which of these categories of needs best fit what you feel right now—It might have served as a decent anchor point both of you could have used to fill in confusing blanks.
Caerula-Lawrence