If you take that view you mean that gworley’s Kegan Level 2 thinking in romantic relationships is a bottleneck for other areas of his life that aren’t about romantic relationships?
Just to be clear I’m not sure the trailing edge is a bottleneck to development, but it is probably a bottleneck in terms of other things you want to accomplish. For example, by pulling my trailing edge forward around romance I was able to eliminate many sources of anxiety such that now I have basically no chronic anxiety, and I’ve stopped taking an SSRI after 15 years on one.
If you take that view you mean that gworley’s Kegan Level 2 thinking in romantic relationships is a bottleneck for other areas of his life that aren’t about romantic relationships?
Just to be clear I’m not sure the trailing edge is a bottleneck to development, but it is probably a bottleneck in terms of other things you want to accomplish. For example, by pulling my trailing edge forward around romance I was able to eliminate many sources of anxiety such that now I have basically no chronic anxiety, and I’ve stopped taking an SSRI after 15 years on one.
Yes exactly. I had this very bottleneck around relationships and communication at one point in my development.