There are some differences between what women consider attractive female traits and what men actually find attractive. The example I like to give is how some women enlarge their lips even though men (usually) don’t find that attractive.
I think these are the relevant points:
Maybe women’s sense of each other’s beauty is more discriminating than men’s.
Some women probably don’t distinguish a sex symbol’s actual physical attractiveness from the other characteristics that would make her rarely and especially appealing to women (like fame, wealth, etc.), and they’re neglecting to account for these factors being less salient to men.
There are some differences between what women consider attractive female traits and what men actually find attractive. The example I like to give is how some women enlarge their lips even though men (usually) don’t find that attractive.
I think these are the relevant points: