If you or someone else accused him of sexual assault I never saw it. That might just be because it was out there and I never looked deep enough to find it, or because it didn’t exist. I do remember reading a lot of accusatory posts about Ialdabaoth so I put a higher probability on the latter explanation.
I only saw allegations of manipulative, disgusting, and fetishistic sexual behavior. Never heard an allegation that Ialdabaoth assaulted someone without their consent. I saw the posts and they had the style of saying a bunch of truly disgusting things about Ialdabaoth, but never laying out the components of sexual assault or making that specific accusation. If Ialdabaoth did sexually assault someone, knowledgeable parties should inform local police and direct them to the victims if they haven’t done so already. The statute of limitations certainly hasn’t passed by this time.
It would be pretty easy to solve this if you showed me an example of someone accusing him of sexual assault back a few years ago.
There were fewer times, but probably still dozens, that he didn’t ensure I had a safeword when going into a really heavy scene, or disrespected my safeword when I gave it.
For posterity: Ialdaboth was accused of sexual assault, not harassment, and admitted to the accusations in spirit although didn’t get into specifics.
If you or someone else accused him of sexual assault I never saw it. That might just be because it was out there and I never looked deep enough to find it, or because it didn’t exist. I do remember reading a lot of accusatory posts about Ialdabaoth so I put a higher probability on the latter explanation.
I only saw allegations of manipulative, disgusting, and fetishistic sexual behavior. Never heard an allegation that Ialdabaoth assaulted someone without their consent. I saw the posts and they had the style of saying a bunch of truly disgusting things about Ialdabaoth, but never laying out the components of sexual assault or making that specific accusation. If Ialdabaoth did sexually assault someone, knowledgeable parties should inform local police and direct them to the victims if they haven’t done so already. The statute of limitations certainly hasn’t passed by this time.
It would be pretty easy to solve this if you showed me an example of someone accusing him of sexual assault back a few years ago.
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Ignoring someone’s safeword seems like a straightforward example of sexual assault.