Acting in a neurotypical way involves making an entire fake personality (cluster of responses to stimuli), i.e. not being able to act automatically, ever.
Neurotypical people have those subroutines hardware-accelerated (they act in a neurotypical way automatically), and so for them it’s simply normal behavior rather than spending your entire life imitating an alien psychology and never being happy, or relaxed, or natural, etc.
Or, to put in another way, when a neurotypical person wants to fit in, they have a higher layer of abstraction available to change their behavior to act appropriately and smoothly (since the bottom layer is HW-accelerated for them), which makes it a completely normal and palatable way of life.
Acting in a neurotypical way involves making an entire fake personality (cluster of responses to stimuli), i.e. not being able to act automatically, ever.
Neurotypical people have those subroutines hardware-accelerated (they act in a neurotypical way automatically), and so for them it’s simply normal behavior rather than spending your entire life imitating an alien psychology and never being happy, or relaxed, or natural, etc.
Or, to put in another way, when a neurotypical person wants to fit in, they have a higher layer of abstraction available to change their behavior to act appropriately and smoothly (since the bottom layer is HW-accelerated for them), which makes it a completely normal and palatable way of life.