Oh yeah, that actually reminds me that after not cutting my hair for several years, I recently did cut it. That gave me the chance to notice that when I had long hair, various people told me it looked good—and then after I cut it, different people told me that I looked good for having cut it shorter. But at no point did anyone say “your hair looks bad now”. (Actually no wait, one person did say that my hair was “ruined” now that I cut it, but that person was also ten years old.)
Oh yeah, that actually reminds me that after not cutting my hair for several years, I recently did cut it. That gave me the chance to notice that when I had long hair, various people told me it looked good—and then after I cut it, different people told me that I looked good for having cut it shorter. But at no point did anyone say “your hair looks bad now”. (Actually no wait, one person did say that my hair was “ruined” now that I cut it, but that person was also ten years old.)