Upvoted. I regret that my comments had this effect on you (though do not regret making them). I hope that you will continue to comment no less earnestly than you’ve done so far, and encourage you to do so.
which I think is a good outcome for your preferences about discourse norms
My discourse norms are honesty, integrity, and truth.
I regret that my comments had this effect on you (though do not regret making them).
I like this. My approval drives would lead to a chilling effect on truth-seeking if everyone tried to white-box optimize them when having conversations, and I don’t endorse that; I’d rather people hurt me a bit than fail at truth-seeking. I wish I had a better way to defend myself from the hurt of social disapproval, though; eg, disowning a comment.
My discourse norms are honesty, integrity, and truth.
Upvoted. I regret that my comments had this effect on you (though do not regret making them). I hope that you will continue to comment no less earnestly than you’ve done so far, and encourage you to do so.
My discourse norms are honesty, integrity, and truth.
I like this. My approval drives would lead to a chilling effect on truth-seeking if everyone tried to white-box optimize them when having conversations, and I don’t endorse that; I’d rather people hurt me a bit than fail at truth-seeking. I wish I had a better way to defend myself from the hurt of social disapproval, though; eg, disowning a comment.
I endorse those.