It seems easy to deal with Bruce. Take the seat to his left. Do your best to help him enjoy giving you +EV opportunities.
More seriously, I didn’t engage deeply with the linked post, more about the text on LW. the link had enough blanket statements and far-mode stories that I didn’t think there was much information for me. What, specifically, is your difficulty? If it’s that “many people spew money because of emotional disregulation or bad epistemology”, you mostly have to decide whether and how you can help them, and how you can catch some of the spew when you can’t help. This itself is a game that you may or may not be able to win, and deciding your goals and how to pursue them is key.
I should admit that one of the reasons I play less poker nowadays is that I find I don’t enjoy the company of the people who make it profitable. I do enjoy those who make it unprofitable, by thinking about the game and talking intelligently about life. The goals of winning and of optimizing my social interaction are at odds, so I do something else.
It’s been said and written many times—the important skill in poker is game selection: find the softest field, and exploit it. As said long long ago on rec.gambling.poker: “to succeed in life, surround yourself with people smarter than you. to succeed in poker, surround yourself with people dumber than you.”
Ah, your inner Bruce. I do sympathize, though I’m not sure I have great advice, other than self-awareness and noticing when it happens. “Akrasia” doesn’t get discussed around here as much as it used to, and it was never particularly rigorous discussion, but it may be worth looking for some older posts and sequences. https://www.lesswrong.com/w/akrasia
It seems easy to deal with Bruce. Take the seat to his left. Do your best to help him enjoy giving you +EV opportunities.
More seriously, I didn’t engage deeply with the linked post, more about the text on LW. the link had enough blanket statements and far-mode stories that I didn’t think there was much information for me. What, specifically, is your difficulty? If it’s that “many people spew money because of emotional disregulation or bad epistemology”, you mostly have to decide whether and how you can help them, and how you can catch some of the spew when you can’t help. This itself is a game that you may or may not be able to win, and deciding your goals and how to pursue them is key.
I should admit that one of the reasons I play less poker nowadays is that I find I don’t enjoy the company of the people who make it profitable. I do enjoy those who make it unprofitable, by thinking about the game and talking intelligently about life. The goals of winning and of optimizing my social interaction are at odds, so I do something else.
It’s been said and written many times—the important skill in poker is game selection: find the softest field, and exploit it. As said long long ago on rec.gambling.poker: “to succeed in life, surround yourself with people smarter than you. to succeed in poker, surround yourself with people dumber than you.”
Nailing down what’s wrong specifically is part of my issue.
Ah, your inner Bruce. I do sympathize, though I’m not sure I have great advice, other than self-awareness and noticing when it happens. “Akrasia” doesn’t get discussed around here as much as it used to, and it was never particularly rigorous discussion, but it may be worth looking for some older posts and sequences. https://www.lesswrong.com/w/akrasia