So, the Love Languages guy has a book about “Apology Languages”, which I thought of while reading this post because all of your apology scripts sounded awful to me and I would much rather hear something other than that. Since he wants people to buy his books he doesn’t seem to have a summary all on one page of all five but there are various blog posts condensing the idea and some official-website excerpts/blurbs if you Google it. Like with love languages, there’s some supposed backing to the model but it’s a convenient shorthand for usable concepts even if the backing turns out to be dodgy.
Since he wants people to buy his books he doesn’t seem to have a summary all on one page of all five but there are various blog posts condensing the idea and some official-website excerpts/blurbs if you Google it. Like with love languages, there’s some supposed backing to the model but it’s a convenient shorthand for usable concepts even if the backing turns out to be dodgy.
Mild (lazy) request for someone with 5 minutes to look up such a post to link to.
Also, Alicorn, curious to hear more about your apology language and/or what feels bad about the script in the OP and/or what feels good about the version you’d prefer.
So, the Love Languages guy has a book about “Apology Languages”, which I thought of while reading this post because all of your apology scripts sounded awful to me and I would much rather hear something other than that. Since he wants people to buy his books he doesn’t seem to have a summary all on one page of all five but there are various blog posts condensing the idea and some official-website excerpts/blurbs if you Google it. Like with love languages, there’s some supposed backing to the model but it’s a convenient shorthand for usable concepts even if the backing turns out to be dodgy.
Mild (lazy) request for someone with 5 minutes to look up such a post to link to.
Also, Alicorn, curious to hear more about your apology language and/or what feels bad about the script in the OP and/or what feels good about the version you’d prefer.