(The below is stated with no modulation for my level of confidence, which actually isn’t very high.)
MDMA is a useful way to improve social skills permanently, or help make you more emotionally available.
While under the influence of it, you’re very empathic, and very socially fearless. The experiences you have talking to people in this state can then transfer to when you’re sober. For instance, you might notice that your openness is well-received, which lets you see that you’ve been under-confident.
Many people do something similar with alcohol: they learn to socialise when drunk, and that makes it easier to socialise when not drunk. I believe MDMA is better for this purpose, because it doesn’t inhibit your memory at all, and you’re more “yourself” than when drunk.
To get this benefit it’s important to take a well-tolerated dose, and not to drink much: you don’t want to be a mangled mess, or the next day you’ll just be embarrassed, especially because you’ll be mildly depressed from the come-down.
I’ve found MDMA to be quite addictive, and most users have trouble controlling their use once they are on the drug: they’ll re-dose, even if they hadn’t planned to, once the first dose begins to fade. So this “hack” is far from free of danger. But I believe the cost/benefit is still better than alcohol for many situations.
For a first time user, I recommend 60-80mg as a good dose, and I always advise people to pre-commit to not re-dosing, no matter whether the first hit feels weak or strong. I usually take 80-150mg, and I don’t always follow my own advice about re-dosing. Sometimes it depends what my friends are doing.
After a camping trip where I over-indulged quite alarmingly, I noticed that I was more “pleasure seeking”: I spent more time seeking sex, more time on buzzfeed and YouTube, etc. This faded after a week or two.
I found that regular marijuana use causes worse anhedonia in me. If I smoke two or three times a week for a few weeks in a row, my affect is fairly flat, and I’m quite unmotivated.
That’s not unreasonable, but I think that a lot of the problems people have come from not even really trying to be careful.
I think selection effects explain almost all of this phenomenon. My nerdy friends don’t really have trouble holding to their pre-commitments. The reckless 20 year olds I meet in bars don’t even really understand the idea of pre-commitments, and the whole thing is just sort of...uncool, to them.
People don’t regularly pre-commit to how much TV they’ll watch, how much internet they’ll surf, or how much chocolate they’ll eat—and when they do, I expect they fail often. When it comes to alcohol, two drinks becoming many is a total cliche.
When considering the risks of “recreational” chemicals, it helps if we distinguish between moreish and addictive. By moreish I mean the tendency to lead to compulsive redosing, and of course when I say addictive I mean in the medium to long term. These can be surprisingly independent. In the case of MDMA, the consensus among drug users, in my experience, is that it’s medium high on the moreishness scale but very low on the long term addictiveness scale. In my opinion there is pretty much 0 danger of addiction for the vast majority of less wrongers.
However, from personal experience it can be a very dangerous social lubricant, it lead to multiple social interactions that I later regretted strongly, and this seems to be pretty common.
(The below is stated with no modulation for my level of confidence, which actually isn’t very high.)
MDMA is a useful way to improve social skills permanently, or help make you more emotionally available.
While under the influence of it, you’re very empathic, and very socially fearless. The experiences you have talking to people in this state can then transfer to when you’re sober. For instance, you might notice that your openness is well-received, which lets you see that you’ve been under-confident.
Many people do something similar with alcohol: they learn to socialise when drunk, and that makes it easier to socialise when not drunk. I believe MDMA is better for this purpose, because it doesn’t inhibit your memory at all, and you’re more “yourself” than when drunk.
To get this benefit it’s important to take a well-tolerated dose, and not to drink much: you don’t want to be a mangled mess, or the next day you’ll just be embarrassed, especially because you’ll be mildly depressed from the come-down.
I’ve found MDMA to be quite addictive, and most users have trouble controlling their use once they are on the drug: they’ll re-dose, even if they hadn’t planned to, once the first dose begins to fade. So this “hack” is far from free of danger. But I believe the cost/benefit is still better than alcohol for many situations.
What’s your dosage schedule? Have you noticed a decreased ability to experience pleasure?
For a first time user, I recommend 60-80mg as a good dose, and I always advise people to pre-commit to not re-dosing, no matter whether the first hit feels weak or strong. I usually take 80-150mg, and I don’t always follow my own advice about re-dosing. Sometimes it depends what my friends are doing.
After a camping trip where I over-indulged quite alarmingly, I noticed that I was more “pleasure seeking”: I spent more time seeking sex, more time on buzzfeed and YouTube, etc. This faded after a week or two.
I found that regular marijuana use causes worse anhedonia in me. If I smoke two or three times a week for a few weeks in a row, my affect is fairly flat, and I’m quite unmotivated.
Given that people often fail at precommiting, I’m reading this post and the grandparent as “stay far away from this stuff; it’s dangerous.”
That’s not unreasonable, but I think that a lot of the problems people have come from not even really trying to be careful.
I think selection effects explain almost all of this phenomenon. My nerdy friends don’t really have trouble holding to their pre-commitments. The reckless 20 year olds I meet in bars don’t even really understand the idea of pre-commitments, and the whole thing is just sort of...uncool, to them.
People don’t regularly pre-commit to how much TV they’ll watch, how much internet they’ll surf, or how much chocolate they’ll eat—and when they do, I expect they fail often. When it comes to alcohol, two drinks becoming many is a total cliche.
When considering the risks of “recreational” chemicals, it helps if we distinguish between moreish and addictive. By moreish I mean the tendency to lead to compulsive redosing, and of course when I say addictive I mean in the medium to long term. These can be surprisingly independent. In the case of MDMA, the consensus among drug users, in my experience, is that it’s medium high on the moreishness scale but very low on the long term addictiveness scale. In my opinion there is pretty much 0 danger of addiction for the vast majority of less wrongers.
However, from personal experience it can be a very dangerous social lubricant, it lead to multiple social interactions that I later regretted strongly, and this seems to be pretty common.