last thing they should do is add “manipulative liar” to the “flaw” column.
Again, if you want to obtain the result of getting sex, learning how to manipulate people and not being afraid to lie in social interactions is a great way to get that result.
This is a decent strategy for a woman. But for a man …. it sucks! I know, I tried it!
So, you go up to an attractive woman you see and like the look of, and say “I think you’re cute. Can I go on a date with you?”, she ain’t gonna fall in love with you. You won’t get a girlfriend like that. Well, not unless you’re extremely good looking or rich or famous or something.
And, surprisingly, men don’t always want relationships. Sometimes we just want sex. To get sex with no strings attached, you have to lie and manipulate, or be extremely high-value for some reason. (e.g. by being a rock-star)
If you just go up to a girl and ask her for sex “Please have sex with me, I’m kind of desperate”, you really really won’t get laid. On the other hand, if you go up to her and ask her “who lies more, men or women?”, turn your back when she answers, tease her, casually drop in a mention of your many exes, take her back to your place on an excuse, promise her nothing will happen, and then repeatedly feel her up like a horny cave-man, well, you’re in with a chance.
It is indeed a shame that you have to behave like this to get laid. But it is fun in its own way.