Luke, I don’t feel I know you well enough to help you with your quest to locate any lingering wrongness in you. From what I’ve seen of your writing and what I’ve heard from people who have met you, you’re doing a really amazing job of walking the rationalist talk. The fact that you even ask the community here this question is quite a testament to your taking this stuff seriously and actually using it. I think I should be asking you this question!
But your asking this makes me think of something. If you, or Eliezer, or someone else of that calibre of rational competence pointed out to me an area where I need to say “Oops” (or otherwise direct rational attention), I’d like to think that I’d take that seriously. I suspect I’d take it even more seriously if there were some avenue for me to ask such people for that help the way you’ve asked the whole Less Wrong community here.
So I wonder: Might it be a good move to set up something like that? We might not yet have a good metric in place for what constitutes someone’s degree of rationality, but I’d imagine if two or three black-belt Bayesians all agree that someone is wrong about something, that should still count for something and is probably a reasonable direction to consider in the absence of a more objective metric. So if there were something set up where people could actively ask for that feedback from known people of skilled rationality (or people designated by those with known impressive levels of rationality), I wonder if that would be useful. What do you think? Or would that just be redundant with respect to the Rationality Dojos you mentioned are coming?
That is an excellent point. My father and I still sometimes get into debates that pivot on this. He says that in a real fight your fight-or-flight system will kick in, so you might as well train tense and stupid since that’s what you’ll be when you need the skills. But I’ve found that it’s possible to make the sphere of things that don’t trigger the fight-or-flight system large enough to encompass most altercations I encounter; it’s definitely the harder path, but it seems to have benefits outside of fighting skill as well.
Possibly! I think that in the end, what I most care about in my art is that I can defend myself and my family from the kinds of assaults that are most likely. I’m not likely to enter any MMA competitions anytime soon, so I’m pretty okay with the possibility that my survival skills can’t compete with MMA-trained fighters in a formal ring.