I find that [letting go of the (im)possible worlds where I’m not trapped] helps reframe/dissolve the feeling of trappedness.
However, that kind of letting go often feels like paying a large price. E.g. in case of sensory overload it can feel like giving up on having any sense of control over reality/sensory-input whatsoever.
Does that maybe get at what you were asking?
It all does! Again, thanks for sharing.
Exciting stuff. This feels like a big puzzle piece I’d been missing. Have you written more about this, somewhere?
~vague gesturing at things I find interesting:
-How do different people (different neurotypes? different childhoods? personality types?) differ in the realities they want to share?
-How do shared realities relate to phenomena like extraversion, charisma, autism?
-What’s the significance of creating shared realities by experiencing things together?
Besides, do you use other neglected people-models that are similarly high-yield? Vague gesturing appreciated.
Problem: Abyss-staring is aversive, for some (much) more than for others.
In my case, awareness hasn’t removed that roadblock. Psychedelics have, to some degree, but I find it hard to aim them well. MDMA, maybe?
Example: Dividing the cake according to NEEDS versus CONTRIBUTION (progressive tax, capitalism/socialism,)
Both, I’d think.
Also this entire post by Duncan Sabien
(@ Tech Executives, Policymakers & Researches)
Back in February 2020, the vast majority of people didn’t see the global event of Covid coming, even though all the signs were there. All it took was a fresh look at the evidence and some honest extrapolation.
Looking at recent AI progress, it seems very possible that we’re in the “February of 2020” of AI.
(original argument by Duncan Sabien, rephrased)
(@ Tech Executives, Policymakers & Researches)
If you genuinely believe that the world is ending in 20 years, but are not visibily affected by this, or considering extreme actions, people may be less likely to believe that you believe what you say you do.
IMO, that’s not the bottleneck. The bottleneck is people thinking you’re insane, which composure mitigates.
“Every paper published is a shot fired in a war”
Epistemic virtue isn’t a good strategy in that war, I suspect. Voicing your true best guesses is disincentivized unless you can prove them.
Fishbach & Dhar find that re-framing the achievement in terms of showing commitment to values, rather than progress toward goals, has a tendency to reinforce the behavior rather than the paradoxical self-licensing effect.
Hm. Does that mean “Rationality is about winning” is ultimately a bad mantra?
Good stuff.
Speculation time: Would this predict that shame-prone people have bigger, deeper identities? Identities seem like a good place for storing those justifications, and those justifications look like a candidate for the reason we have identities in the first place.
Shame appears to be a reaction to perceived norm violation, so shame-prone people would be those with strong and restrictive internalized social norms.
I don’t mind self-help-books-level advice if it pointedly helps me improve my mental hygene. This did.
Which is perhaps most efficiently achieved by killing the wisher and returning an arbitrary inanimate object.
Personal experience / opinion: For me sleeping positions are an issue of expanded (back) or contracted (side) body language.
In an expanded state I seem to have a lower threshold for cognitive dissonance. I.e. my mind is less prone to indulging in pleasant-but-at-odds-with-reality thought trains. So I, for mental health reasons, try to fall asleep on my back when I can manage to tolerate the expanded state.
Powerful improv metaphor. Powerful post.
Ah, but if we’re immersed in a culture where status and belonging are tied to changing our minds, and we can signal that we’re open to updating our beliefs, then we’re good… as long as we know Goodhart’s Demon isn’t lurking in the shadows of our minds here. But surely it’s okay, right? After all, we’re smart and we know Bayesian math, and we care about truth! What could possibly go wrong?
The trickiness of roles that involve the disidentification with specific roles or the concept of roles in general must not be underestimated. That’s especially true for roles that seem to be opposed to the prevalent social structure.
I’m also reminded of Transactional Analysis. In particular, Games and Life Scripts.
People are just really bad at seeing the merits of things they aren’t already in favour of.
I’d consider that an important factor in whether something ends up being an antimeme in a given culture.
In my understanding of the term, the most straightforward definition of antimemecy is “very low cultural infection rate”.
(And implicit in the discussion so far seems to have been a certain expected usefulness of mentioned examples. Maybe we should focus the conversation on things with high expected value and low cultural infection rate / overall prevalence in western culture.)
My impression is that in-group status is always, inherently zero-sum.
While the influence/worth distinction may be a relevant one, I think it’d be relative worth that satisfies status-as-social-need.
Praise certainly meets other emotional needs, though, and it may well be rational to have more of it.
It would tend to have the effect of making most people give up on the idea of antimeme
Yes, that effect on most people is kinda in the nature of antimemes.
In a LW context I wouldn’t paint the picture too black though. The average poster’s epistemic standards are high. High enough to warrant a mindful reader’s second look at the antimemes they’re proposing.
The corresponding discussions would certainly not be frictionless. That doesn’t mean they couldn’t provide some high-value insight to a few people, though.
To me this looks like the stuff LW is all about. I mean, aren’t we looking at low-hanging fruit hidden from vantage points of naive epistemology?
Seconded (after working with this concept-handle for a day). This here seems to be the exact key for (dis)solving the way my brain executes self-deception (clinging, attachment, addiction,).
(I’m noticing that in writing this, my brain is fabricating an option that has all the self-work results I envision, without any work required)